Summer on the Bright Side

List Mania! Be the Parent

2010-06-25T07:32:00.000-07:00

I have mentioned before that I'm a bit of a list nut. Since I've had bloggers block lately, I am going to make use of my many lists and share them with you here.

It's all official, too, cuz I made a little photo title for it!

The first list I am sharing is sort of an outline from my favorite parenting book... Be The Parent, by Kendra Smiley.

No. I don't have a kindle. But I wish I did. Or an ipad.

Choice #1: Choose to Be the Parent!
1)      Admit the problem exists
2)      Build your confidence
3)      See the vision
4)      Develop a plan
5)      Know you will make mistakes, and keep learning

Choice #2: Choose to be a role model
1)      Know that, for better or worse, you are the role model
2)      Take the challenge to model the best
3)      Discover that modeling is what you say and do
4)      Let this knowledge influence your behavior
5)      Remember, it is not all about you

Choice #3: Choose to be present
1)      Guarantee guantity time with your child
2)      Orchestrate quality moments in your quantity time.
3)      Work, play and pray with your child
4)      Include your child in your adult world
5)      Be available for your child, but don’t interrupt her

Choice #4: Choose to be an encourager
1)      Aim high, but not beyond the sky
2)      Catch your child in the act of doing something right
3)      Applaud the product and the process
4)      Encourage your child to encourage others
5)      Teach your child to praise God

Choice #5: Choose to discipline in love
1)      Sing off the same song sheet
2)      Follow the basics of discipline
3)      Think long term
4)      Be consistent
5)      Reject the parenting lies

Choice #6: Choose to allow failure and success
1)      Resist the rescue
2)      Give the freedom to succeed
3)      Encourage maturity appropriate choices
4)      Continually expand the boundaries
5)      Eliminate the vote

Choice #7: Choose to Pray
1)      Pray early
2)      Pray often
3)      Pray for yourself, child and your spouse
4)      Pray with your spouse
5)      Pray with your child

A Shaken Heart

2010-06-24T10:23:00.000-07:00

My daughter took a field trip to Discovery Science Museum.

They learned about the big Japanese earth quake and got to feel a room shake, to experience what it might have felt like.

Sierra's heart was shaken.

She is now driven to help the people of Japan

(yes, I know Haiti is more recent but that fact won't soothe her shaken heart).

Suddenly she regretted using her piggie bank money last week for a razor scooter.

But she found some last dreggs of change.

And she's mailing it to Japan. With a note saying it's from her, so they would know.

God bless little kids. When do we lose that unabashed want to help others?

crEATe Recipe Swap - A Quick, Healthy Breakfast

2010-06-17T14:41:00.000-07:00

photo from The Goat and The Kid blog

On Thursdays Nancy does a crEATe Recipe share over at her cool blog. I'm linking in to share my favorite breakfast..

Ever feel like a hearty, healthy breakfast but not want to make a big mess in the kitchen?

Let me share my go-to.

To call it a recipe is a bit of a stretch, but it's so easy, you should have it in your go to list too...

What you'll need:

a mug or glass dish

pam, or other non stick spray

1 egg

spinach

bacon bits

splash of milk (optional)

1. Spray dish or mug

2. Put in egg and stir to break up yolk

3. Add a splash of milk, mix

4. Drop in a handful of spinach and a pinch of bacon bits

5. Stir until coated

6. Cover, and microwave for 1 minute

That's it! I put mine on a tortilla but I've been known to get wild and put it on a bagel thin too!

Enjoy!

Ms. Elizabeth Bennet

2010-06-16T15:50:00.000-07:00

Meet Lizzie.

She's our newest family member.

She's a rescue mutt.

And she's throwing me for a loop.

My "normal" is gone.

Potty training all over again.

Sleepless nights (tail wagging, cone banging, doggie needs to go potty)

A friend following me everywhere I go.

One more thing to think about when I leave the house (or shower)

Another mouth to feed.

Hair to clean up.

I'm sure I will have a new "normal" within a day or two.

And I think we have thrown her for a loop too.

I can tell she misses her foster owner.

But she'll get be happier soon. Love goes a long way in making one feel better.

Could it be true?

2010-06-12T21:37:00.000-07:00

Could my daughter really be done with kindergarten?

Am I really the mother of a first grader?

I don't have to tell you how quickly the time has gone. You are experiencing life in warp speed with me.

At least my daughters school made the last week of kindergarten spectacular. All the fun kept me from getting too emotional.

At least I can still look forward to one more year of preschool with this little one.

I'm wiping the tears away now. It's time to celebrate!

It's summer time!!!

When I was a kid, summers were SO BORING. My mom worked full time and I don't think she thought to plan anything for us (not to mention the cost of registering us for cool classes). We just sat around wasting time.

But not my kids.

I have vowed to make summer time fun and interesting for my kids.

Because I can.

We have so much planned! Here's a taste...

Ballet

Art classes

Sonshine camp

Vacation Bible School

Mommy made homework

Visiting friends

A day trip to balboa island

Swim lessons (at the YMCA - no swim nazi this year... hooray!)

Learn to ride a bike without training wheels (kids, not me!)

A trip to San Francisco (1/2 marathon - eek)

Daily crafts (will post the good ones!)

A day trip to Tanaka Farms

Free movies at Regal cinemas

and more!!!

I should note that not everything is being done at once! I just made sure they had at least one thing almost every day. They aren't rushing around town from one activity to the next. :)

How about you? What are your summer plans? If you are one to not plan anything and just let it roll, tell me your secret. I would love to learn how to make summer fun, with or without planned activities!

Meatloaf Muffins Recipe - A Link Party

2010-06-10T11:22:00.000-07:00

photo from The Goat and the Kid's blog

My buddy Nancy, at The Goat and the Kid, is having a fun link up deal-i-o on Thursdays. You post a recipe, then link to her blog. I've never done a link up thing, so this should be interesting!

My all time favorite family recipe was already featured on my blog here. So I'll give you another easy, family favorite today.

I make meatloaf muffins a number of different ways. The first recipe below is for the kind that I happen to be making tonight. (It's basically just throw a bunch of random things together with meat and add an egg!). The second recipe is for a version that I got from Weight Watchers. They are also super tasty!

Did you catch that? TWO recipes here folks! I aim to please!

Meatloaf Mini Muffins

1 lb ground turkey
1 whole egg AND 1 egg white
finely diced veggies (tonight i'm making bell pepper, onion, and mushroom, diced it equals about 2 cups)
1 tsp worsteshire sauce
1 tbsp bbq sauce
1/2 cup rice (or about 1 cup stovetop stuffing)
pepper and salt

Mix together and put in 12 muffin tins (sprayed with pam). Bake 35-40 minutes (350?)

Makes 12

Weight Watcher Meatloaf Muffins

1 lb ground round
2 egg whites
½ c non fat plain yogurt
1 tbsp A1 sauce
1 package stove top dressing
1 cup water

Mix together and put in 12 muffin tins (sprayed with pam). Bake 35-40 minutes (350?)

Makes 12
2 points each

I wish I had a photo, but if I took one now you would see raw meat, which is disgusting. And if I wait till later tonight, it will be too late. So you'll have to live without a meatloaf muffin photo today. :(
ENJOY!

Mud Run!

2010-06-07T18:18:00.000-07:00

I threw caution to the wind this past Saturday and took part in the Camp Pendleton Mud Run with a few friends.

My running buddy, Brandy and me.... BEFORE

do we look tough?? I didn't pick the outfits.

clean shoes... BEFORE

THE COURSE: a challenging 10k run with hills, tire obstacles, low sand crawl, river crossings, two-5-foot walls with mud on both sides, resevoir crossing (4 1/2 feet deep), tunnel crawl, slippery hill climb, and the final 30-foot mud pit.

It was all of those things.

shoes AFTER. I had to throw them away, along with the socks.

This race was SO MUCH FUN and I survived with only a sprained ankle and some minor cuts and bruises!

oofta.

Anyone want to run with me next year?!!!

Creativity

2010-05-31T19:12:00.000-07:00

cre·a·tiv·i·ty

–noun

1.the state or quality of being creative.

2.the ability to transcend traditional ideas, rules, patterns, relationships, or the like, and to create meaningful new ideas, forms, methods, interpretations, etc.; originality, progressiveness, or imagination: the need for creativity in modern industry; creativity in the performing arts.

3.the process by which one utilizes creative ability

100th Post. Oh how I love these kids!

2010-05-25T11:19:00.000-07:00

Today is my 100th post.

I intended to post about a couple workout DVD's that i've taken a liking to. I thought it would be fitting since I started this blog as the 100 DVD challenge. But the DVD's will have to wait. I've got something more important to share.

I took the girls on an impromptu trip to the duck lake around the corner from our house.

Sea turtles, ducks, a hedge area to play house. Does it get any better than that on a weekday afternoon?

These girls melt my heart.

I love it when they play togehter nicely.

AHA MOMENT...

It seems lately they have been doing a better job at getting along. It might be cooincidence, but I'm pretty sure it has something to do with me trying to stay calm around the house. I've realized that when I am stressed out and irritated - they are too. When i play calm, they play calm too! Is that the secret to motherhood?

God, I love this 6 yr old. She's lost 3 teeth and her 4th one is hanging on by a string. She looks like a little hill-billy!

This lake is about a 4 minute walk from my house! In case you are all jealous, or wondering why I don't take them here every single day, I'll clue you in. If you look closely, you will see it's a bit scummy. Sea turtles with sludge on their backs.... duck poop EVERYWHERE!

But just like everything else in life, it's all how what you choose to see, isn't it? Today I choose to see the beauty of the lake.

"if you change the way you see the world, the world you see will change"

I'm not sure who said that! Either Ghandi or Wayne Dyer!!!

P.S. Although I haven't been posting much lately, and haven't been leaving comments on blogs, I am still reading your blogs! I'm bogged down by school at the moment, so I sneak a quick read when I can but get off quick to study. Two more weeks and then I'm a free woman for two months! :)

Dear Tooth Fairy

2010-05-10T19:14:00.000-07:00

Rockin Sneaks

2010-05-03T09:00:00.000-07:00

The kids are rockin some new "Twinkle Toes" shoes.

It's true love.

"Mommy, we started a "twinkle toes" club!!!"

"Can we wear our new shoes to bed??"

"Do I get to go to school tomorrow? I am going to wear my twinkle toes!"

MIA!

2010-04-29T14:34:00.000-07:00

My Inner Athlete (MIA) went missing about a year ago. Right about the time my inner "A student" showed up.

It's not that I haven't exercised in a year. It's just that the best of my energy and focus has been on school and my family.

But her absense has been missed and she's been asked to come back. So MIA is back. And her motivation has changed.

No longer does she care about being thin, or looking hot. Her newly found, stronger motivation is based solely on health and feeling good.

She's driven by the feel of endorphins pumping through her body. Driven by the knowledge that an exercised body ages well. Driven by the connection exercise gives to her and her studly swimmer husband.

To celebrate, the hubby and I bought the inner athlete a gift. It is scheduled to arrive on Tuesday.

no, that's not me.

See, my inner runner has also returned. And she's starting a half marathon training June 5th.

Yes, I'm back. And I feel good!

No more excuses! I am finding time to break a sweat every day. I can survive without exercise. But it is essential if I want to thrive.

I had a little aha moment earlier this week when I realized: I wouldn't skip out on sleep for almost anything. So why skip out on exercise, which gives just as many immediate feel good benefits?

Today I did a workout DVD at home. It was the "Women's Health Total Workout in TEN" DVD. There are 4-10 minute workouts. I did all 4, to see if I liked it. I will say, they use each 10 minute segment wisely, cuz you get a really good, well rounded workout!

My daughter thought I could use some better instruction, so she picked up my light dumbells and showed me how it's supposed to be done.

She's got an inner athlete too. :)

like my messy house? Somethings gotta give.

Need some motivation to find your inner athelete? Check out my friend, the Goat's, blog. She's like a little Jillian right now. :)

My Backyard View

2010-04-22T18:28:00.000-07:00

My backyard view at 6:00PM on a Thursday...

My NO maintenence garden

popsicles any time. any where.

climbin' the apple tree

tooth number 3 is hanging on for dear life

chocolate giggles... priceless

Tea Time Made Easy!

2010-04-19T09:09:00.000-07:00

I heart tea.

and I heart my new dream gadget for tea lovers.

208 degree water all day long! Endless cups of tea!

It's also convenient for oatmeal. :)

Tea time, made better.

I'll end with a funny story about me and tea...

My family is English, and I grew up with mom brewing at least two pots of tea every day. I have loved it as far back as my memory takes me.

On a drizzly day when I was 9 and mom was at work, I had a brilliant idea to have a hot tea stand in my neighborhood. I brewed a big pot of loose tea and set up a table for my customers. Then I posted a sign that read, "HOT INGLISH TEA. GET IT WHILE IT'S HOT! 10 cents/cup. I was ready and eager to serve tea all day long if I had to. Maybe I'll do it every week, I thought. I'll be the richest kid in the neighborhood, cuz tea is the best!

Only no one showed up. All day. Poor little 9 year old me.

Did you notice how I spelled English on my sign? I only know this because my mom still has the sign, with hello kitty tape still attached. :)

Pencil Sharpening Lessons from My 4 yr old

2010-04-15T11:44:00.000-07:00

I sharpened a bunch of pencils with my 4 yr old this morning....

We used the glass slipper pencil sharpeners left over from their birthday party goodie bags... aren't they cute?..

Hers turned out sharp.

Mine did not.

She had almost no shavings. I had a lot.

I asked her what her trick was. "Just keep going. Doing is slowly and doing it hard-ly".

I should have known!

A Day at the Beach

2010-04-09T08:15:00.000-07:00

The weather has been so beautiful here. We soaked it all in yesterday, joining my dad and step mom for a day at the beach.

I didn't want to babysit my SLR, so I brought my crappy camera...

We looked for sea shells and rocks along the beach.

This is my 4 yr old's idea of "rocks"....

My dad and step mom bought an ancient motor home (it's in really good shape) and made it into their beach mobile. The kids think it's cooler than Disneyland. This was in the parking lot. We didn't drive without carseats!

Life is good.

Time

2010-04-06T16:40:00.000-07:00

Happy Spring!!!

Remember me? It's been a while.

Most of my time lately has been spent on these things:

Physiology... a lot of it.

My favorite 4 and 6 yr olds, who happen to be on spring break with me...

And lastly, daydreaming about getting one of these...

I hope this post finds you well. I'm sure I'll be back in blog land soon!

An Un-Martha Double Birthday Party

2010-03-31T11:17:00.000-07:00

Not all bloggers are Martha.

Here's one that's not even close.

We threw a double birthday party for my girls this past weekend.

It was super fun but I can assure you, Martha wouldn't have been proud. The only thing homemade were the cupcakes (all 72 of them) - from a boxed mix.

I'm so dissapointed that I didn't take more photos. I kept meaning to take some cool photos but it all went by in a blur!

Why didn't I get a photo of them together?! Urgh. In my defense, their parties were at separate times. The 4 yr olds party was at 10:00 and my 6 yr olds party was at noon. Two separate cupcake decorating events. :)

You guys, i suck. This photo isn't even from this party! This is from a party we went to a couple weeks ago, when I got the idea to decorate cupcakes! I forgot to get a cool photo when my kids were decorating, so I threw this one in for effect. I cannot tell a lie.

It may not have been up to Martha's standards, but the parents seemed to have fun. And the kids didn't notice anything but the bounce house, cupcake frosting, and goodie bags.

We had games, yes we did. But did we play them? No! Everyone was having so much fun, I backed off and let them enjoy themselves. I'm not type A, in case it's not abundantly clear here.

look at this poor child panicking to get out of the bounce house to decorate cupcakes.

Nothing fancy. Just a bunch of kids coming together to wish two special girls a happy 4th and 6th birthday!

I have to give a shout out to my wonderful husband who set up the bounce house three times until it was perfect, and went on four different car runs for me during the party.

Thanks Sugar. You are the best!

Crazy busy and a quote by Rockefeller

2010-03-30T20:51:00.000-07:00

"Don't be afraid to give up the good to go for the great"

-John D. Rockefeller

I've been super busy with Physiology and planning my kids double birthday party (which was a total success!). I will post a real post soon. In the meantime, I thought i'd share a quick quote. Enjoy!

My Laundry "Room"

2010-03-24T20:16:00.000-07:00

A little self-depricating humor for your evening...

Laundry is a problem in my house. Mostly because I hate doing it.

I don't have a good system and I don't have a good place to fold/sort, etc. I am grateful for the abundance of socks, workout pants, uniforms and t-shirts we have been blessed with, but I don't like doing laundry.

This is what I WISH my laundry room looked like...

Earlier tonight I read this post. I want her laundry room too.

Want to see MY laundry "room"? Have you eaten lately? If so, you may want to wait until your food is digested...

This is the top of my dryer. Isn't it nice. Who knows why those tid bits never made it to where they were going. I use bounce free, cuz it doesn't contain perfumes or dyes. I like that in a dryer sheet.

This is my view from the small garage door that goes into my house. That's my car crammed in near the dryer. Oh, and notice the moldy old wood block that the water heater sits on.

I might need to do something about this sloppy mess soon.

Power Thinking Wednesday - Over-thinking it

2010-03-24T13:17:00.000-07:00

I drafted this post last Wednesday but never sent it because it's so long.

If you want the short version, here it is: I think too much. There you have it. I make too many lists and don't live in the moment.

That all changed after this post. Literally, it did! I've had an amazing week since I wrote this. I've played with the kids, laughed a lot, smelled flowers, enjoying life.

Okay, if you want the longer version... keep reading.

Over Thinking It: For the Last Time

This is the last power thinking post for a while...you'll see in a minute.

Yet again, God has answered my prayer for help. The answer was not what I was looking for. I was looking for something I could do to finally feel in control of my life. Finally feel caught up and ready to be the mom I want to be. I prayed for this because I’m tired of feeling like I’m treading water. I’m never ready for my kids when I pick them up from school. I always have tasks hanging over my head and the need to study hanging on my back. I never feel ready to play. Never feel ready to live.

So I prayed for an answer.

And this is what I got.

Stop thinking so much.

I am always in my head. Thinking non stop. Making lists, both mentally and on paper, of whatever is on my mind at the moment. Things I need to do, ideas for getting my kids to behave, how to improve a situation, what’s bothering me. The lists go on and on.

Sometimes I think I’m being smart by thinking so much. Like if I think hard enough, all of my problems will find answers and life will be perfect.

Sometimes I feel like I’m a “deep” person, always giving my thoughts room to grow.

But the truth is, all of this thinking is robbing me of mental serenity and it’s keeping me every where but the present. You see, if I’m thinking about what went wrong before school, how I will discipline the kids when they get home, or ideas to stay cool during the summertime – if I’m thinking about all of those things (and more), I’m not living in the present. I’m living in the past and the future. Every minute of every day. Because, see, when school gets out and it’s time to discipline the kids in the manner I have so well thought out, I’m thinking about something else. I’m making another list, of what to study for my next Physiology exam or what needs to get done when the kids are in bed.

Not to mention that all this thinking makes me tired! Thinking all day takes mental energy. Then when the kids require my mental energy – say to break up a fight, think of ways to entertain them, or pull together a dinner with a bare cupboard – well, by then I’m drained. My mental reserves are on empty and my brain says, “on break”.

Up until this realization, I have whole heartedly believed that what was keeping me from serenity was all of the “things” that need to get done. If I could just complete my list, finish my tasks, think it through completely, I could have peace. Now I realize it’s not the “stuff” on the list that’s robbing me of peace. It’s the list itself.

Yes, I need to stop thinking so much.

But how does one stop thinking? I’ll tell you how. I stop thinking by being present. If I’m living in the moment, I am noticing green trees, feeling a cool wind on my shoulder, witnessing a belly laugh from a 3 yr old. There is no room for deep thought in the present. Living, instead of planning to live. That’s what I’m doing.

Indeed, God is worthy of my praise. This simple realization, that I’m wasting today thinking about tomorrow, changed my whole day. I am pretty sure it’s going to change my tomorrow too. How do I know this? Because there are dishes in the sink but the only thing I want to do is go pick my kids up from school. Nothing else seems important now. I miss them and I want to play. I haven’t felt that way in a long, long time. That tells me God is working on my heart. Peeling back the layers to allow me to love like He wants me to.

A picture...

2010-03-18T14:28:00.000-07:00

is worth a thousand words...

Yes. Those are underwear on my daughters head. Her idea.

Blessings in Disguise

2010-03-16T13:22:00.000-07:00

Meet my 3 yr old.

This is what happens when you leave her alone with a glue stick.

This little girl has lots of good qualities:

She is silly and full of personality

She loves to dance, skip, run, color and play.

She's rough and tumble and likes to climb trees...

She rubs her lips on the frayed corner of her purple blankie to calm down... how cute is that?

She adds joy to my life.

but...

She's also a strong willed child.

If you prefer, call her a "spirited child". Heck, call her a "difficult" child. It's the plain truth. She fights me on almost everything. All day long. She screams if her sock isn't aligned perfectly, says potty words, kicks me in the shin, kicks the back of my car seat, throws things and has melt downs. Call it whatever you want: she gives me grey hairs.

She is birth control. It's true. Just ask my husband.

She has been difficult since birth. For the first 6 months of her life, if she was awake, she was crying. My husband and I point out babies who are awake and not crying. We think it's weird and not fair.

But even at her worst, she's mostly good. No, having a strong willed child isn't "all bad". Besides all of her good qualities, she is also a blessing to me.

God doesn't give anyone challenges just for the heck of it. We are given challenges so that we can grow in character or learn something. Challenges are blessings disguised as difficult situations.

God has given me this spirited child for a reason. I can learn a lot from her. If I look at all of the qualities I will need to possess in order to be a good mom to her - I am looking at a list of the gifts that God is trying to give me. These are the blessings I can learn from my child...

1. Patience

2. Strength

3. Slow to anger

4. How to love the unlovely

5. Kindness

6. Empathy

7. Sensitivity

8. Determination

9. Enjoy the little things

10. How to find peace in all situations

Wow! What a blessing this child is to me!

I hope your day is as blessed as mine!! Ha! :)

Life Lesson #37: Choices

2010-03-12T15:30:00.000-08:00

Sometimes the most obvious truths are "AHA" moments to me. I wonder why I ever had to clarify it for myself in the first place. It's just a quirky thing about me, I guess.

Life Lesson #37:

Seemingly insiginficant choices made now have the potential to imact the quality of your life later. Choose wisely now and you will feel happier, healthier and more peaceful later.

The outcome is determined by the actions.

You reap what you sow.

If you want peace, act peaceful. Stay calm. Don't yell. Show kindness.

If you want to feel healthy, act healthy. Eat good. Exercise.

If you want to feel less rushed, plan ahead. Prepare for the next day. Leave early.

If you want an organized house, act like an organized person. Finish your tasks. Put things away.

"You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today" - Abraham Lincoln

Practical examples from a real (imperfect) life:

Choosing to pack the kids lunches before bed (now) makes my morning less stressful (later)

Choosing to leave the laundry in the basket for 3 days (now) makes me irritated every time I look at it (later).

Choosing to eat a deep fried chicken sandwich and fries at lunch, instead of a salad (now) makes me feel uncomfortable and dissapointed with myself (later).

Choosing to spend my spare time studying (now) will allow me to feel a sense of accomplishment when I get a good grade on my exam (later)... 100%!

Choosing to yell at my kids instead of staying calm (now) sucks the peace out of my house and makes me feel like a bad mommy (later).

You get the point. Peace. Out.

Hope you are having a wonderful day!!!!

The Sad Truth

2010-03-10T11:11:00.000-08:00

I haven't felt like posting lately. We've had a rough couple of weeks here in the Plummer household. Both kids were sick and there was a lot of whining going on.

When everyone is happy and healthy, I am excited to post! I love to share about my life and my journey as a mommy. But when things aren't going great, I don't feel like sharing. I don't want to burden anyone with my complaints and sorrows. I would much rather share positive things and spread brightness. But as bright as my life is, it's also real. And real life is sometimes messy.

I shared last week that my youngest daughter was diagnosed with "constipation". She had been having stomach aches off and on, and many potty accidents both at home and at school. We took her to the doctor 2-3 times in two weeks, trying to get to the bottom of this issue. After many tests, the doctor suggested she just needs to poop. But the problem stayed, even after she pooped. And it got much worse.

Last Friday I called the doctor again, telling her that my daughter is in a lot of pain. She was complaining about her vaginal area burning. The doctor said she must have a yeast infection and suggested we give her over the counter cream.

I ended up taking my daughter to the Emergency Room on Saturday afternoon when it because clear that her problem was neither consiptation, nor yeast infection. We left the hospital with two prescriptions. The poor thing had a bladder infection and a vaginal infection.

Just last week, this photo of my daughter made me laugh. When I saw it I thought of a silly little 3 yr old who refused to go potty when she needed to. Now when I look at it, it breaks my heart. Now I see a little girl in serious pain, needing to be fixed but not getting help. She had complained about her vaginal area before, but she complained in the same way she does when the seam on her sock isn't lined up right, or when she gets peanut butter on her shirt... she would be really upset for 2 minutes and then run off and play happily.

Needless to say, the day I took her to the hospital, her complaints were loud and clear. She was in real pain.

I'm happy to say that she is feeling better now. We haven't had any accidents and she's her playful, happy self. I haven't fully recovered from it yet, as I have so much guilt for not insisting on better treatment weeks ago. I should have known. It all seems so obvious to me now! The million trips to the potty, the accidents, the tummy aches, the fussiness.

I'm also embarrased. Although they say vaginal infections are pretty common in little girls, what does that say about me? That I haven't taught her proper hygeine? Do I not clean the tub well enough?

I can't even begin to tell you how upset I am that the doctors couldn't figure one or both of these problems out in one of our many visits. Effective next month, we have a new pediatrician.

Anyway, that's my not so perfect life, in a nutshell.

Kids are Funny

2010-03-04T17:23:00.000-08:00

Here are a few gems my kids surpised me with this week...

We juiced some grapefruit from our tree this week...

Because my daughters mysterious stomach pain was diagnosed as being constipation (she's full of "it"), we have to give her miralax. It's a laxative. She's thrilled to have a special drink - and a reason to get juice. When I was giving it to her today, she got all excited and told her sister, "mommy putted salt in juice for me!!" Yum.

The excitement was contageous, because soon after I started prepping the little ones miralax, my 5 yr old came in asking if she, too, could have some of this special juice. I told her that I would give her some too (she's always a bit backed up too). I told her that it's a laxative. She responded with, "ooohh, that sounds good!". Hmm.

The other night, when putting my daughter to bed, she lovingly pulled my hair back to get a good look at my face. She said, "mommy, when your hair is like this, you look like a teenager... except for here and here (pointing to my eyes) because you have dark circles and wrinkles. You need some sleep". Nice.

My 3 yr old has a tendency to hold her pee for as long as humany possible (sometimes even longer). Unable to walk, many times she does this cross legged, funny little squat walk to the bathroom. If I ask her what she's doing she says, "I breathing". The other day she told me (warning: it's a little gross), "mommy, I breathing from my who-who (our word for privates).

Power Thinking Wednesday - Pity Party Pooper

2010-03-03T14:54:00.000-08:00

Today is power thinking Wednesday. It’s not something I plan, it just sort of happens that way. On Wednesdays, I drop the kids off at school and head over to Mission Viejo for a 3 mile walk around a beautiful lake.

It seems that when I power walk, I tend to start power thinking at the same time. Thinking with a purpose. I drafted a super long post last Wednesday too, about the mind/body/spirit connection but didn’t post it for fear it was too long.

Today I was thinking about my attitude. I have noticed a change in my mood lately and consequently, the way I treat others (and by others I actually mean my family). I have been impatient, quick to anger, negative, unkind and just plain not fun to be around. I’m sure my family has grown tired of spending time with me like this. But today I realized that I’m tired of spending time with myself too.

An attitude adjustment was in order, but I wasn’t in the mood to make it happen. Sometimes it’s hard to pep yourself up when you are feeling grouchy. Today I enlisted a little help from the man upstairs.

Normally, I breeze around the lake at a fast clip, sometimes power walking and sometimes running. There is a spot on the path, where the lake peaks out from behind the trees and the lush green foliage builds a quiet sanctuary. It never fails that at this spot, I am taken aback by the view and I think about stopping on the nearby bench to soak up. Usually I just keep on going but today I decided to do just that.

I sat and closed my eyes, listening to the birds chirp. I became aware of the breeze blowing on my face. It was there that I felt God with me. In the silence, I asked for help. In the silence, I got an answer.

In a knowing sort of way, I understood what was going on and what to do to change it. What became clear to me was that I have been feeling sorry for myself too much. In the last two weeks, I have been feeling sorry for myself almost constantly (kids are sick, I’m not getting enough sleep, house is messy, husbands back is sore, no one has manners, kids are fighting… I could go on but you get the picture). I’ve been having a pity party for one. The fruits of this pity were clear: anger, negativity, unhappiness, impatience, unkindness, etc. Basically, the opposite of who I wanted to be.

Then I thought, if feeling sorry for myself is producing the opposite of what I want for myself, maybe I just need to DO the opposite of ‘feeling sorry for myself’ in order to yield opposite results. Is that confusing?

If I feel sorry for myself, it means I am not being grateful. I am not appreciating any of the blessings that I have in my life. I have so been focused on the few bad things that I have missed seeing the many good things. It’s understandable that I have been a grump!

The problem that had, only ten minutes before, felt so overwhelming and complex, suddenly felt so simple and easily rectified.

I felt so much better just knowing what needs to be done. I pulled out my blackberry and started making a list of all the things I am grateful for at this moment. It won’t surprise you to know that my list was very long. I live a blessed life. And I felt better. Way better.

And so my attitude has been adjusted. I am off to write a positive message to myself on my white board… “Don’t miss the abundance of good things by focusing on the few bad things.”

Decorating on the Cheap

2010-03-01T13:43:00.000-08:00

My husband and I live like college students. I'm not proud. Just honest.

With the exception of a flat screen TV and a sleep number bed, almost all of our furniture was acquired from friends or family. In fact, we have a rule, called the Plummer's Rule. It goes like this: If you want something and are willing to wait long enough, it will fall into your hands. It's true!

note the gorgeous framed artwork ala my 5 yr old daughter

Proof of Plummer's Rule:

coffee table: from sister in law

hideous off white sectional: from a friend 9 yrs ago

small table: good will

white hutch: built by my dad when I was a kid

curtains: from my step mom

Oh, I dream of someday having a magazine worthy house filled with pottery barn furniture. But right now we have messy kids and private school tuition. Note: I'm all for public schools but ours is bottom of the barrel.

But every once in a while, we make a small purchase. And it's always shocking to me how much pleasure I get out of looking at it! Case in point: yesterday we bought a rug for the family room. It's an indoor outdoor rug from Costco. Translation: inexpensive and durable. I wasn't sure about the pattern, but i'm glad I listened to my hubbies input. The colors match my "curtains" perfectly! Curtains are sheets, hemmed and put up on a curtain rod.

poster art, at 37?

The rug gave me the bug to decorate (pardon the pun). So I rearranged our hand me down sectional sofa and bought a few inexpensive red accents at Target today. I heart cranberry red!

Our livingroom is huge. And although I love having a nice, airy room, it's really hard to decorate. There is a giant vaulted ceiling and one big wall with a beam going across the top of the room. We have lived here 9 years and still haven't figured out what to do with this wall. Anyone have any inexpensive ideas for how to decorate this wall (or room!)??

Update on the Gold

2010-03-01T13:03:00.000-08:00

photo found here

A couple of you have asked how my husbands swim meet and my training run went. Here's a quick update... they didn't.

Friday I shared that my husband shaved most of his body for a swim meet. He's part of a Masters Swim team and has only recently started competing in tournaments. He was so excited for his second swim meet this weekend, but woke up to a tweaked back on Saturday. The whole reason why he joined the swimming group was because he has a bad back and swimming is one of the only exercise options for him. Plus he's really good at it. His back is feeling much better and hopefully will stay that way so he can enjoy competing again soon. I'll be sure to post photos of him in a speedo at a meet. Ha! (Oh, but I might!).

And remember my early morning Saturday run? That didn't happen either. The kids were up not once, not twice, not three times, but FOUR times on Friday night - thanks to their various ailments. So when I woke up to pouring rain (as prayed for) I was happy to get right back in bed. I WILL join my training group next week though. I'm signed up for the mud run in June, and the San Francisco Half Marathon in July!!

On the bright side, we are all back to (pretty much) normal! One kid is on antibiotics for an ear infection, and the other, well, she's home sick again complaining of stomach pain. But she'll be better soon. In the meantime, she's redefining crabby!

Supercalifragilisticexpialidotious

2010-02-26T21:03:00.000-08:00

Well, it's what you are supposed to say when you have nothing else to say, right?

non sequitur...

We had a family movie night tonight. Can you guess what we watched?? Yep.. Mary Poppins (hence the title).

I'm worried about my little one. She's been sick with a fever and a tummy ache. It's not like her to be lethargic. I hope she gets better soon.

My husband shaved his head today. And his arms. And chest. He's swimming in a Masters Swim tournament this weekend and apparently he's going for Gold.

I have been eating too much lately. Stress eating mostly. It's getting ridiculous. I need to get a grip and start gaining control. Either that, or go buy some elastic waistband pants. Hmm.

I start a trail running class in the morning. I'm praying for rain because I don't want to get up when it's dark. I WAS looking forward to it. But getting up at night with the little one has me tired.

On the Bright Side...it's Friday! I'm looking forward to a relaxing, rainy weekend!

I hope you have a really wonderful weekend!!!

The Impact of Attitude, Charles Swindoll

2010-02-24T21:01:00.000-08:00

"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than the facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. We cannot change our pasts, we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it. And so it is with you - we are in charge of our attitudes."

- Charles Swindoll

The photo has nothing to do with the quote. I just wanted to add a photo so the blog wouldn't seem so plain. :)

Embarrasing Moment - The Bridesmaid Dress

2010-02-22T17:59:00.000-08:00

It's time for another embarrassing moment...

About 10 yrs ago, I was honored to be a bridesmaid in my oldest and best friends wedding (okay, not the OLDEST, but I've known her the longest... 23 yrs now).

It's important to note that I loved my bridesmaid dress. Seriously, like loved it so much I was already thinking about where I could wear it again.

My friend had a big Jewish wedding planned. Major money. Every detail thought of. We were both giddy with excitement.

The day of the wedding, I pulled the bridesmaid dress out to steam it. I wanted to look my best at this fine event. Only it didn't go as planned.

Seconds after I stared steaming the dress, I accidentally touched the fabric with the hot iron. Any guesses as to what happens to a poly/mix dress when it hits a hot iron? Umm. It MELTS. It melts holes.

this picture doesn't do it justice. it was bigger than it looks

How do you call your best friend on her wedding day and tell her you burned a huge hole in the back of your bridesmaid dress?

You don't. You have your boyfriend do it. I was so hysterical, in a major state of panic, so this part is a blurr. I only know what happened because my now husband was my then boyfriend. We lived together (gasp!) and he witnessed the train wreck. So Josh picked up the phone and called Mindy. Only he was hysterical too, so his words came out like "iron, Summer, screaming ". It scared her.

The good thing about your best friend fearing your death on her wedding day is that hearing that you burned a hole in your bridesmaid dress suddenly doesn't seem like a big deal.

She told me to grab the dress and meet her at the hair studio. Pronto.

Waiting for me was one giddy aunt, ready to take charge.

Here's the thing. In this large, very close and very sweet Jewish family - the aunts have a little rivalry. Their whole lives, my friends mom and her aunt have been competitive. Even about their kids. And their kids weddings.

So naturally I suspected taht her aunt's thrilled look was because it was her sister's daughters wedding, not her own daughters wedding which was surely going to be perfect. This is totally my interpretation and can't be said as fact. Unless you count all the nonverbal conversations me and BeFri had on that day (okay, not conversations, just mutual eye rolls).

Anyway, auntie was happy. Tell me she doesn't look happy in this picture!?

Auntie took the skirt. Said she'd be back in a couple of hours. She knows a seamstress who can "fix it".

My suspicions were confirmed when Auntie came back with my skirt minutes before the ceremony. To all of our shock and horror, the skirt had a GIANT BOW over the hole. Huh?!!! It looked better with the hole! My friend said, "hell no, that's not happening" and insisted the bow be taken off.

So we left down the isle, me with a gaping hole, smeared with remnants of a giant bow that was no longer.

And the wedding was a success. And the reception was F.U.N. And, incidently, the marriage is still a success too (and so is mine, which is a year younger).

So that's it. Another Summer moment. Hope you liked it!

Bibbiti Bobbiti Boutique

2010-02-20T19:42:00.000-08:00

The girls have been doing such a good job earning bedtime hearts

The reward: Bibitti Bobitti Boutique at Disneyland.

Where an ordinary girl

Is transformed into a Princess!

The girls have been wanting to go here for almost a year. They were both thrilled!

After the bling and beauty makeover, the day got even better.

They met celebrities

Hung out with the Queen...

And with Prince Charming

And then after a nice dinner, they got to play with their new makeup (which came with makeover)..

both on themselves...

and...

wait for it....

on the Queen!

Sierra said over and over today that this was the best day of her whole life.

Mission Accomplished.

The Troll has Left the Building

2010-02-17T18:10:00.001-08:00

before

after

My nose isn't really crooked like it is in these photos. I only know because when I uploaded them, I panicked and checked in the mirror. Why is it always crooked in photos?
Hmm.

The verdict? I no longer feel like a troll. My hair is now lighter in color and feel. Ahhh.

I'm pretty sure the hair dresser wanted to strangle me at the end because...

1. I have way more hair than you'd think. Even though it's fine, there's tons. That always means they mix up too little color and have to redo another batch half way thru. They also spend way longer than either of us like putting the foils in.

2. My hair is really hard to cut. It's so fine, it shows every single flaw. And thanks to the cowlicks, it's just a mess. It takes some serious work to get it to lay flat. The girl seriously worked up a sweat. She told me so. She seemed a little grumpy.

3. I would not give up until the bottom would sit flat. I kept politely asking if she could cut a little more "here" and "here". Ya, and just a little more again. I've learned to ask for what I want. I know that if the hair is too heavy near the bottom of my face, I feel 10 lbs fatter and I look like my neck belongs on a quarterback.

This is a boring post. Sorry. I just wanted to let you know I no longer feel like a troll.

Have a great day!!!

I hate my hair!

2010-02-16T12:24:00.001-08:00

I usually try to keep my posts on the bright side. It's in the blog name, after all. But sometimes, a girls gotta vent.

I hate my hair!!!!

Did that look like I was shouting? Cuz I meant it too.

Seriously, this picture doesn't even show the troll-ness that it is. This is after a full styling in my bathroom, with flat iron too.

And not just today. Always. For years. Okay, so there was a short time when I paid top dollar to get it cut at a great salon in Newport Beach and, I'll admit it, I liked it then. For the short time I went to Peggy the miracle worker, I had a lot of good hair days. Washed or not, styled or not, it was pretty good.

But then I got all practical (stupid) on myself. I decided to find someone 1) closer and 2) cheaper. Actually, I would have settled for either of those things but both would have been ideal.

So far my search has been unsuccessful. I have tried two people. One was super close and fairly cheap. Bad. The next wasn't as close and not quite as cheap. VERY bad.

Tomorrow I go for number three. The stylist was recommended and she's close to my house. I didn't even ask the cost (sorry Josh). It doesn't matter. It's cheaper than buying a fine wig, which is in the running too.

But today, it's frizzy, washed out, brassy, too dark and too blonde?, blah, heavy, flat, mousy, boring and just plain dull. At the risk of being melodramatic, I'll tell you this.... I'm a troll. And, considering the past few weeks, today is a good hair day!!!

I'll keep you posted on the new hair person. I'm holding out a glimmer of hope that my troll days are done. We'll see.

On the bright side... my girls got their hair cut yesterday. They most certainly do not look like trolls. On the contrary, they are just too cute for words...

My daughter, checking herself out in the mirrors at macy's bra dept

We got about 6" cut off my youngest daughters hair. Loving it!

Desiderata

2010-02-15T20:02:00.000-08:00

photo from flickr

The following was written circa 1952, with credit given to Max Ehrman (there is a little debate about the copyright). I first saw it on a card years ago, and it immediately became part of me. I hope you like it!!

Desiderata:

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. but let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. - Max Ehrmann, Desiderata copyright 1952

Muffin, Bird or Horse?

2010-02-11T12:08:00.000-08:00

I'm going to let you in on a little game someone taught me years ago. It's so simple and silly but it's shamefully fun.

It's a people watching game.

The idea is that every person can be classified as either a muffin, a bird or a horse. It's all based on facial features (not personality).

Birds: pointy noses, small features, smallish eyes and narrow shoulders
Horses: Strong features, larger nose and jaw, bigger build (not always)

Muffins: cute, roundish features, softer nose, chin, etc.

Everyone wishes they were a muffin

My husband and I are total nerds and have adapted it to allow for combination classifications. Such as, muffin/horse. bird/muffin, etc.

I like to think I'm a horse/muffin. But if I'm being really honest with myself, i have to admit I'm just a plain horse. My husband is too.

Me. I mean Neighhhhh!

My kids are both muffins. I think most kids are, due to their soft features.

my cute little muffins

I think my mom is a bird, but she'll never hear that from me...

my bird mom

Just for fun, a few celebs (i'm totally busted because I didn't site where I got them. oops).

bird

muffin

horse. as if i have to tell you this one.

*added later: per my husband's comment, i'm adding a photo of a "celeb" that he thinks is more of a bird. I disagree, but that's why this game is fun. I think we need to get lives. Also, can someone tell me, if I "edit" a post, does it repost the post, or show it twice on your list? I tend to edit mine after publishing them and i'm embarrased if it is putting the post on everyones blog roll again and again.

bird, according to Mr. Horse (Josh)

SO there it is! From this day forward, you can never say you were bored while waiting in line at the DMV. Just whip this little diddy out of the back of your mind and get

So, what are you? A muffin, bird, or horse?

Worship Playlist

2010-02-10T10:15:00.000-08:00

A few months ago, I wrote this post about "uncaging my soul".

I never understood exactly why singing in church made my soul weep with pure joy. Until my favorite pastor, Buddy Owens, recently spoke about Worship. He gave the down low on what worship is and why we do it. His simple, yet eloquent teaching gave me a major "aha" moment.

What he said (I'm paraphrasing - I lost my notes!) is that the purpose of worship is to align yourself with God.

I understood that to be the purpose of prayer, but it was news to me that singing worhip songs was for the same benefit. I thought worship was for His benefit, not ours. But, that's not really so. You see, by glorifying God, you are being brought into His spiritual current, in a sense. I think of Finding Nemo, when the sea turtles brave their fears to jump into the current of the big EAC (dude). :)

What I have realized is this: The reason my soul feels awakened during worship music, is that for a rare moment in my busy life, my soul is aligned with God. Where it's supposed to be!

Since I want that feeling more often, I downloaded some worship songs to listen to daily. It was a bit of a task, since i knew nothing about worship music. Unless you count Country music, which is fairly spiritual in my book. Here's my playlist... hope you like it.

Worship Playlist:

Beautiful - Bethany Dillon
Beautiful One - Jeremy Camp
Blessed be Your Name - Tree63
Everlasting God - Lincoln Brewster
Great Are You Lord - Phillips, Craig & Dean
Hallelujah (Imagination) - Bethany Dillon
Here I Am To Worship - Chris Tomlin
How Great is Our God - Bethany Dillon
In Christ Alone - Bethany Dillon
Mighty to Save - Hillsong
Open The Eyes of My Heart - Phillips, Craig & Dillon
Sing Over Me - Bethany Dillon
The Words I would Say - Sidewalk Prophets
What Faith Can Do - Kutless
When You Love Someone - Bethany Dillon
You Never Let Go - Matt Redman

P.S. This post was inspired by this blog post by Graceful.

P.P.S. Bird, Muffin, Horse to come later in the week. I was inspired so changed my plan.

P.P.P.S. I think I am going to change my blog name to Summer On The Bright Side, because I found out there was another bright side blog... oops.

Off to study!

Non Sequitur

2010-02-09T19:55:00.001-08:00

This post is totally random but I can't think of what to write about, and there are a bunch of random things on my mind!

My 5 yr old is so cool! In the past two weeks, she has learned how to jump rope, sew a button and tie a pony tail.

She also cracked me up over the weekend with her eagerness to help me. I strained my neck on Saturday and while my husband was running around trying to help me get comfortable, my 5 yr old did the only thing she could think of to make me feel better... she grabbed my ear plugs from beside my bed. She said they are in case I don't want to hear any noise. My kid knows me!

I'm trying to read Elizabeth Gilbert's book, Committed but I can't seem to do it. The first chapter was pretty good but the current chapter is more boring than my husband's book, which I so lovingly call the History of Oatmeal, but is actually called The History of Strength and Materials (He's a Structural Engineer).

Remember my post about the bedtime hearts? I just thought I'd give you an update: it's still working! In the past 11 nights, each kid has only lost one heart. And the ONE time that a kid got out twice, she lost TV the whole next day. She was like a crack addict going thru withdrawels. so I'm pretty sure that is not happening again.

Another note about bedtime: my kids and I have been telling what we call "switch stories", where she starts the story by telling one sentence, I make up the next sentence, she makes up the next, and so on. It's so fun to see where their imaginations take them. And since I have a hard time coming up with creative stories, it gets me off the hook for at least 1/2 of the story. Tonight my daughter said, "the princess was a pretty good sewer. and she had pretty good shoes..". Huh?

Today is the first day in 3 days that I can breathe through my nose, thanks to a head cold. I felt like I was given a new lease on life the second I felt a cool breeze drift inside one nostril. It's the little things in life, right?

I started my Physiology class today. It's a pretty intense class that's going to take a lot of studying. Translation: limited blog time. I'll still read all of ya'll's posts but I will likely ponly post once or twice a week. I'm sure you will all survive. Just don't forget about me! :)

Stay tuned for my next post... are you a muffin, a bird, or a horse??

my husband thinks i'm nuts for posting this crazy blog post tonight. it's pretty random. sorry folks!

Pink from Floor to Ceiling

2010-02-06T19:24:00.000-08:00

I love craft supplies.. especially fancy papers and cute stickers...

Craft supplies are a staple in this house. The kids pull them out the second they get home from school. Our kitchen table is almost always covered end to end with cut up papers, glue sticks, markers and stickers. It's odd, but it's something I want them to remember about their childhood.

The other day, I caught my 3 yr old under the table making a craft. Not sure why she thought that was more comfortable than the table but I let her go with it. What's the harm?

This banner (below) was inspired by my super rad friend, The Goat. I used the word rad in her honor. I had the total pleasure of going to her house on Friday for a de-lish breakfast (along with two other new divine peeps) and got a glimpse at her banners. I am having a bit of cricket die cutter envy, since it took me about an hour to cut out these shapes by hand.

My daughter writes, "I love yow". I correct everything else she misspells, but every time she gives me something with this written on it, I melt. I don't have the heart to point it out to her when she hands me a heart felt love card!

Okay, so when I went around the room taking these photos, I came across something a little disturbing. The photo below is of a valentines card that my 8 yr old neighbor made. I'm SURE she doesn't know what this means. She was saying "these bees are lovers, and these bears are lovers, etc". But eeeewww.

Given all the arts and crafts going on, I gave up on trying to keep the craft stuff hidden. It's now been offered prime real estate in our kitchen, in these oh-so-lovely drawers.

Totally unrelated... aren't these cookie jar pigs (below) funny? They used to belong to my husbands grandma. The top of each pig says, "Go ahead, make a pig of yourself". They are so tacky, but I have them in my window box in the kitchen. I don't care if they are ugly... they just make me smile.

Embarassing Moment - A Flirting Oops

2010-02-02T20:24:00.000-08:00

I've shared a lot of embarrassing eating stories but I haven't shared very many other embarrassing stories. I have lots. I've thought about writing a book about all of the goofy, embarrassing and down right ditsy things that I have done. But who has time to write a book? And really, like it would get published?! So I'll share one here, and then another one sometime soon.

This one wasn't even the funniest, but it popped into my mind so it's the first.

***

When i was 19, I attended CSULB and shared a condo in Huntington Beach with my brother and a girlfriend. It was a three story condo, and we lived on the second floor. On my way up the stairs one day, I noticed a REALLY HOT guy looking at me. He was all cool and relaxed, with a beer in his hand, leaning on the side of the banister in the adjacent condo. Blushing, I continued up the stairs, glancing over every now and then to see if he was still there. He was. Did I mention he was cute? And he was still looking - no staring - at me.

I was flattered, but was also a little creeped out. Why was this guy staring? He's so intense!What's his deal?!

I quickly got into my condo and yelled for my friend to come over. I was all squealy and giggly, explaining that a hot guy couldn't take his eyes off me, etc. She looked out the window and saw him too. We were both freaking out at this point. I mean, who is this stalker anyway??!

My brother comes out of his room wondering what all the commotion was about. We told him and he decided to take a look for himself. He peeked out the window - and then proceeded to let out the biggest laugh I had ever heard. "It's a cardboard cutout, you idiots!". And it was. A coors light cardboard cutout. Flirting with me. :)

Misc Notes:

This post was inspired by my blog friend Darlene, at Music to My Ears. Check out her embarrasing moment here.

I picked a picture of Carter Oosterhouse because he's... well, um (sorry honey) he's hot. He wasn't actually the guy on the beer ad. At least I dont' think he was. :)

I found another use for dixie cups.... heating up syrup for the kids. 10 seconds in the mircowave and you have perfectly warm syrup without any mess!

What's Eating Me?

2010-02-02T19:14:00.000-08:00

There's a saying that goes, "it's not what you are eating, it's what's eating you". The theory is that some people eat to avoid feeling things. At least that's my interpretation anyway. So if someone is an emotional eater, they are supposed to take certain steps to stop the negative pattern of stuffing feelings and stuffing tummy. If an emotional eater is about to embark on a no-no (plate of cookies), she should stop, ask herself what she's feeling, then deal with the feelings - and say no to the food.

I've been thinking about this lately because I recognize that on some level, I am an emotional eater. I'm also an emotional exerciser, so I maintain a fairly normal weight, thankfully. And although I have never eaten a whole tub of ice cream, or stuffed an entire loaf of bread down my throat, I do have tendencies. If I'm feeling agitated and there is a granola bar (or four) in my path, it's likely it is being consumed. Hence the sugar free thing*

But what if an emotional eater doesn't know what is bugging her? Or what if she does, but she doesn't know how to fix it? What then? I've been stumped by both of these questions at one time or another just this week. There have been times that I feel revved up and want to inhale something - but when I analyse my "feelings", I feel just fine. I'm not sad, angry, disappointed, etc. I feel just feel fine, thanks.

Then there are other times, like right now, where I know what I'm feeling but I don't know what to do about the feelings. So I'm writing a blog.

Here's what's eating me...

1. I am miffed that my daughter got mad at me for not wanting to play school - after I had just spent 45 minutes being her "art student" even though I was super tired. I thought I should be seen as a good mom, since I was so fun and patient, but I ended up being viewed as a bad mom. this bugs me.

2. My daughter asked me why I have lines on my face. Wouldn't bother me so much if I hadn't been noticing the same thing lately myself.

3. I am hurt that my daughters both want my husband to put them to bed every night. It wouldn't be so bad if he just did it and I could get a break. But we each put one kid to bed every night, which means that almost every night one or the other kid is crying and whining because she has to have mommy.

4. My husband has a cold, which means he doesn't feel like eating and he goes to bed as soon as the kids are in bed. It just feels weird, and a little lonely.

So that's what's eating me. And because I can't really expect validation from a 5 yr old, and I can't be mad at my husband for being sick, I am writing a blog.

* and here is where I fess up about my slip tonight. What prompted me to write all this? Maybe the FOUR granola bars I pounded down while making my kids lunches. I have been pretty good about the whole no-sugar thing. But I bought a pack of granola bars for the kids lunches. Why?! I don't know. I guess I thought I could be trusted. But after my emotional charge through four wrappers, I realized there was something else going on. So I'm blogging. And I must admit, I feel better (even though I have a bit of a tummy ache!).

Bedtime Hearts to End Battles

2010-01-31T19:41:00.000-08:00

Bedtime at my house used to be a peaceful event, which left everyone in the house with warm fuzzies. I'm not sure what caused the change, but at some point in the recent past, bedtime turned into battle time.

The calm before the storm. This is my youngest with her lovey. She rubs her lips on the frayed corner of her blanky. I think it's the cutest thing ever! Almost makes up for all the drama.

We tried sticker charts, earlier bedtimes, later bedtimes, skipping baths, adding more songs, more cuddles, teddy bears. We tried positive reinforcement, negative reinforcement, spanking and ignoring. No matter what we did, our kids still insisted on coming out of their rooms a trillion times and making their refusal to sleep well known throughout the house (and maybe even the street). This added an hour to bedtime (and took an hour away from parental free time).

Then we had enough. After brainstorming and talking with friends, we came up with a plan that worked like a charm. Tonight was the forth night in a row that each kid went to bed without coming out of her room once.

Since it was so successful, I thought I'd share. Maybe one of you might need it as much as we did.

The plan:

Each child is given a heart at bedtime. This heart is her "pass" to come out of her room. Bathroom trips are allowed, as long as they go back to bed quietly. And obviously mid-night nightmares or illness get cuddles from mommy without losing heart.

Since she only gets one, she is only allowed to come out once.

The first time she comes out, we collect the heart

If she comes out a second time, she loses a privilege the next day

If she comes out a third time, we will actively ignore her (pick her up, carry her to bed without saying a word - and no eye contact - yikes).

Here's the catch - if she doesn't use the heart, she gets to keep it. When she gets 10 hearts, she gets a prize!

That's it. Neither of them came out of their room once for 4 nights!!!

Here's why I think it works:

1. Instead of having to earn something, they start out with it in their hot little hands. It's harder to give something up than to not get something that you haven't had. It also puts the control in her hands. Does that make sense?

2. Since we sat them down and explained details, we were all very clear about the expectations (including me). This gave my husband and I confidence that we were on the same team and we knew what to do. I think they could sense our confidence too.

Note: I reused these cute little hearts that were used last year in our "love garden" (another behavioral enticement that worked well). They are just wooden sticks with wooden hearts, painted and glittered.

Speaking to My Heart

2010-01-29T18:30:00.001-08:00

Ever since I became a Christian, I have heard people say phrases like "God put it on my heart", "God spoke to me", "I felt God's calling...". Hearing those phrases always confused me. As a Christian, shouldn't I be hearing things too?

Then a couple of years ago I had an experience that I could only explain as God speaking to my heart. The details have the makings of their own blog post, but I'll give you 411 quickly. I was sitting in church. I felt a "knowing", for lack of a better word, that I was supposed to have another child, I should name him David and he will do great things. Whoa!

Umm. Pardon me, but I think that thought might have been meant for the person next to me.

In case you are wondering if one of my kids is this blessed child that I was supposed to have, let me burst your bubble and set the record straight now. I said no. Well, my husband and I collectively said no. Heck no. Not convenient. Not happening. Our second child cried almost her entire first year of life and besides, we are done with bottles!. Snip, snip (get it?).

I said no to God, the ONE time in my life I heard him talk to me. What a jerk!

I'd be lying to you right now if I told you that I regretted my decision. I haven't been tortured by feelings of regret or sadness of not having more kids. But much like the "knowing" I had in church a few years ago, I live with a "knowing" that I am missing out on a blessing. As hard as it would have been to have another child, I "know" that my life would be even more complete if I had followed God's will. It doesn't feel possible, but I "know" it. My loss, for sure.

In the two years since this happened, I haven't heard any big messages from God. Okay, so I likely haven't been listening as much as I could. But I do pray and I do like to think that the lines of communication are open, even if a little fuzzy.

But God likes to give people second chances. And I got one.

No, I'm not pregnant. Nor will I ever be (snip, snip).

The life that I've been called to help is that of a 12 yr old girl. Actually, two girls - 7 and 12. These two girls live on my street. Their mom walked out on them a few years ago. Just walked out and left them (and their brother, whom I don't know) with their dad and grandparents. And then, about a year later, grandma left. Then Grandpa. So these girls live with their dad, their brother and their uncle.

Imagine, my female friends. Being 12 yrs old and not having a mom or any "maternal" fill ins. Let that sit with you for a minute.

My heart breaks for these girls. I see the pain in their eyes when they watch my kids interact with me. I've felt ache in my heart for them for months. Then the other day, while watching them play at the park with my daughters, it hit me. I need to be here for them. That 12 year old girl right there needs me in her life. She needs a woman to talk to and to learn from.

So I invited them in for pizza. And we made hair bows. And I felt blessed to be there with them. And I think they liked it too, because they came over again today as soon as they got home from school.

Thank you, Lord, for my second chance. I won't blow it this time.

What about you? What does it feel like when God speaks to you? Do you listen??

Quick Quote

2010-01-29T09:16:00.000-08:00

Since I don't have much time to write today (off to Disneyland with daughter who doesn't have school today!) - I figured I'd just share a quote with you.

"Even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there". - Will Rogers

Stay tuned for a post about my latest addiction - fabric hair bows (thanks Nancy!)!!!

Have a great day!!!

Girl Scout Cookies & Label Me Sugar Free

2010-01-27T17:17:00.000-08:00

Today is day three of sugar detox and it was much easier than day two. Because I'm not giving up all carbs (just the obvious sweets and white flour stuff), it's really not that big of a deal. Tomorrow i'm throwing a label on me that says sugar free, and i'll stop updating about it... unless I have a funny story to share.

This afternoon, a neighbor came to the door selling girl scout cookies.

I bought one box that looked unappealing to me and two to donate. Their visit reminded me of an embarrasing girl scout cookie caper that I had a few years back. And, since I have nothing better to chat about right now, I guess i'll share it...

A few years ago, BrightSide husband ordered a bunch of girl scout cookies from a co-worker. When the cookies were delivered, it was the middle of lent and he was commited to giving up sweets (I think I was too, if only for a moment before I changed mine to something I thought was more reasonable). We agreed to put them in the freezer until after lent.

I visited the cookies often, each time taking one (or two). Over the course of a few weeks, I ate all the cookies.

When lent was over, BrightSide husband got all giddy and beamed at me, exclaiming, "I'm so excited that I finally get to eat some of the girl scout cookies in the freezer!". OMG. I had to come clean and tell him I ate them. All.

I laugh as I type this but it wasn't funny. He was a little irritated and I was ALOT ashamed.

And now when he orders cookies, I have asked him to leave them at work. And he happily oblidges.

Day 3 wrap up: I do still miss my zone bar breakfast. But I begrudgingly admit that my healthy egg burrito breakfast (with spinach and bacon bits - yummy!) kept me full much longer. I haven't craved carbs at all today. I ate some nuts here and some cheese there. Normally I would feel really guilty about that, since they have so many calories. But I was surprised to find that 1) my blood sugar stayed level all day, 2) I didn't feel hungry once and 3) When I served dinner, I skipped on the whole wheat pasta because it didn't even sound good. Huh?

I also had a great workout this morning - ran 3 miles and then did my weight training circuit. Endorphins are still flowing, many hrs later. Much better payoff than a cookie (or a box) gave me!

Hopefully something wonderfully funny or uplifting will happen tomorrow, so I can share about something other than this topic, which has become stale... even to me.

Day Two Sugar Detox - Lonely Tea Cup and a Bright Side

2010-01-26T15:01:00.001-08:00

Day two of sugar detox. Okay, so I don't really eat that much sugar on a daily basis. Unless it's a special occassion or I dare to bake, super obvious sweet things aren't around to eat. But there is an exception...

Double Dark Chocolate Zone Bars.

My favorite breakfast is a thing of the past.

My tea cup is lonely. And really, it's a little bitter without the sweet chocolate.

I'm shocked at how much I miss those darn bars.

But I must have been getting more sugar somewhere to be so grouchy giving it up these past two days. I guess a bite of my kids treat here and a granola bar there really add up.

My husband is annoyed with me, I can tell. He can't understand why I'm so grouchy (I'm a total b*&#@ tonight). I warned him but he must not have believed that i'd be tough to live with (ha!). He must not have known about my little zone problem.

Hopefully my sweetness will come back soon, even if i'm sugar free*

* I am not planning on going completely sugar free for the rest of my life. In case you catch me nibbling on a free sample at Costco next month, I thought I should let you know. I'm just getting it out of my system and then I plan to be mindful about eating sugar in the future. I am being a student of my body at this point, trying to see what plays a role in my energy and mood level. :)

But on the BRIGHT SIDE...

I took these photos at bedtime tonight. My husband makes such a great daddy for little girls! He let's them do his hair in their "beauty shop", and even lets them put fairy wings on him. I saw this and ran to grab my camera, before he could protest. :)

Sugar Detox Day One - Finding Joy in New Places

2010-01-25T14:48:00.000-08:00

I realized something this weekend that is kind of life changing. I discovered that I am a "sugar sensitive" person. That's a nice way of saying I'm addicted to sugar. Remember last week, when I posted about how proud I was of myself for drinking a glass of milk and refraining from scarfing all of the cookies? Well that was at about 11am. By 4pm, it was a totally different story. Sugar high city.

Scared and embarrased by my inability to control myself around cookies, I started surfing the web. What I found surprised me. I found that there is a real "condition" out there called "sugar sensitivity". Some people just can't handle their sugar. I am one of them. I have known this for years. That's why I don't bake and it's also why I don't allow peanut m&m's in my house.

What I didn't know was that there is a chemical, physiological response to eating sugar. Duh! I'm getting high from the frigging cookies!!! It sounds so ridiculous, but I think it's true! And you know what the problem is from getting high off of cookies (besides muffin top)? Highs are followed by lows. Which explains my icky mood post-cookie inhaling. And my icky mood the next day.

I don't like that any food has that kind of control over my body. It's why I stopped taking the prescription pain meds on day 2 after a c-section (they made me loopy!). And it's why I gave up drinking diet coke (it gave me a buzz, followed by a v. foul mood).

I didn't have a name for my little problem until now. But now that it's got a name, I need to do something about it. So I have decided to detox off sugar. Not all carbs, just sweets, since they are the the ones that seem to come between me and my healthiest self.

So today is day 1 of my sugar detox.

If I doubted at all that sugar had an effect on my mood, the thought went away at about 11am today, when I started to notice I felt grumpy and sad - sans sugar. My favorite breakfast in the world is a cup of hot tea with a Double Dark Chocolate "ZONE" bar, which I couldn't have today.

An article I read said it's normal to feel a little blue and grumpy the first few days of giving up sugar. The author recommended finding non-food ways of finding joy in your life. Things that make you feel like you are taking care of yourself. Take a walk, read a magazine, give yourself a manicure, etc. To be honest, when I read that I thought it was sort of fluff. I didn't think any of those things would actually make me feel joy. But, I made a mental note to make a similar list of my own because if I take sugar out of my life, I'm going to need to find sweetness in other areas.

Then something surprising happened. I spent some time cleaning out my fridge to make room for all of my Trader Joes finds and I realized that afterwards, I felt GOOD. Could it be that cleaning out my fridge just brought me joy? I must admit, I felt as good as if I had consumed a diet coke or had eaten a cookie!

So now I'm happy again. And I have a clean fridge! My husband will be so thrilled when he gets home! A messy fridge, crazily stacked pans and mismatched tupperware are the only things we EVER fight about.

This makes me happy right here... One of these drawers used to be dedicated to crap (sugar, butter, brown sugar, corn meal, etc). I cleaned it out so I could have two drawers for veggies. Give those bad boys some space to spread out!

I also made a bin just for nuts. Do other people like bins and containers as much as me??

And my cupboards are all clean too!

Sorry for the long post!

Rainy Day Craft - "Stained Glass" Art

2010-01-22T17:05:00.000-08:00

The kids and I did a craft today that I thought I'd share. It was a tad bit messy, but it kept the three of us entertained for an hour so it's a winner in my book.

"Stained Glass" Art

What you need:
crayons
veggie peeler (or cheese grater, or knife)
wax paper
iron (for mom, obviously) - set to low
protective surface - newspaper or table cloth
dixie cups (optional!)

What to do:

Put an OLD table cloth or newspaper down to protect your table!

1. Take wrapper off crayon

2. Shave crayon to get little pieces for your masterpiece

yet another use for dixie cups!!!

3. Spread crayon flakes on wax paper (less is more, I found this out the ugly/hard way)

4. Cover with second piece of wax paper & iron on LOW

Voila!

5. Optional: you can also cut scraps of paper to make a frame.

Enjoy!

Tutu in a Tree

2010-01-21T16:56:00.000-08:00

I don't have much to say. I just like this photo of my 3 yr old, because it captures her personality so well. She's rough and tumble and frilly girl - all at the same time.

Self Respect or Tummy Ache: A Surprisingly Difficult Choice

2010-01-21T11:15:00.000-08:00

Cookies are my weakness. My trigger. My "Achilles heel". If I bake them, I usually can't stop eating them. Actually, if I am in the same building as them, I can't stop eating them. Since I know this about myself, I rarely bake them. For the same reason I don't go walking in dark alley's at night... it's about survival.

But it is pouring rain and I have been stuck inside with two kids for days. Can you believe my daughters school is closed down due to flooding... in Orange County?

Baking cookies seemed like a fun way to pass the time with my girls. So I threw caution to the wind and decided to bake Janna's Oatmeal Chocolate Chip cookies. You may want to stop by her blog and copy the recipe... they were divine.

photo from 2cool4myminivan

But even though they were quite possibly the best cookies I have ever met, I didn't trade my self respect for a tummy ache. No, this time I decided to take a different route. When I caught myself mindlessly (frantically) eating my second warm cookie straight from the oven, I had a little pep talk with myself. I've been doing that lately and it seems to help. I said to myself, "You are stronger than this. If you want a cookie, make it a reasonable snack and then stop".

So I poured a glass of lowfat milk (I haven't drank milk in at least a year... i find it gross unless accompanied with a warm chocolate cookie).

photo from the dailygreen.com

Then I ate my cookie while drinking my milk. To my surprise, when I finished the cookie and milk, I was done. Satisfied. Stuffed.

I'm not sure if it was the pep talk or the milk that made the difference. But whatever it is, I feel happy with the outcome.

My plan for the rest of the cookies is this: 1) I will make a plate for my next door neighbor and walk it over if it ever stops raining. 2) I will make a plate for my husbands work and put them in his car as soon as he gets home. 3) I will put the last few into individual baggies in the fridge, for my kids to eat tomorrow. Because there is no sense in torturing myself.

On the cookie topic, I thought I'd share with you a cute little story I got in Weight Watchers years ago.

***

I met him at a party. There he was at the end of the buffet - a loner, the last one on the plate. He had a certain something - a sweetness, a sensuality. He was one hot cookie.

I felt as if i'd always known him, always hungered for him. When he looked at me with those warm brown eyes, I melted. Before I knew it, I had my hands on him, my mouth on him - in public. After that night, we were inseperable.

With him, I could be myself. He didn't seem to care what mood I was in, how I looked, even if I gained weight. Toegether, we had the recipe for happiness. No one satisfied me like Chip.

Then things changed. My friends said he was no good for me. He started to give me heartburn. I felt crummy, but it had to end.

Now we've gone our separate ways. I hardly think of him anymore. Oh, if I see a certain TV commercial, a particular magazine ad, a coupon for 10c off - that old longing returns.l And when we run into each other at teh supermarket, we nod.

We are friendly, but it's over.

***

P.S. I only used half the chocolate chips but they were still shockingly good!

Isn't this a funny photo of my daughter? I came across it this morning and had to laugh.

Queen Blog Nerd

2010-01-20T16:46:00.000-08:00

If you want to know what I'm all about, I'll tell you in one sentence. I'm about thriving in life, not merely surviving.

But that's not the only little nugget I'm going to share with you. At the risk of being crowned Queen Blog Nerd, I'll tell you something else...

I have a Mission Statement.

Nerd or not, I believe everyone should have a mission statement. It's a way to keep your priorities in clear view. I keep my mission statement posted on my white board in the kitchen. Every now and then I see it and give a quick self check, asking myself if I am being true to what I value.

Truth be told, sometimes it's merely a "wish list" of the person I want to be. But I believe that if you have a clear expectation of who you want to be, you are more likely to meet that expectation. And most of the time, I'm closer to the person in my mission statement than I was to the person pre-mission statement. If that makes sense.

So I'll share it with you now. And then I'll go get my Queen Blog Nerd crown ready.

Summer's Mission Statement:

I am a healthy, energetic wife and mother who lives my life consciously and fully. I strive to create meaningful life experiences for my family as well as foster learning and a love for God. I am a good steward of my body, my mind, my soul and the planet. I am present and my mind is serene. God has filled me with a positive energy and an abundantly joyful spirit. I believe that the choices I make shape my life. I choose to dwell on the positive. I choose to be happy.

And there it is folks! Hope you enjoyed it because there is a distinct possibility I will have deleted this post by morning, after my glass of wine has worn off and I recognize this for the embarrassment that it is. :)

I Ain't Just Whistling Dixie

2010-01-18T17:56:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was a holiday - no school for the kids - and it poured rain all day. A perfect pajamas & tent, don't leave the house kind of day!

The girls and I had so much fun together! We played dance class, hair salon and playdoh. We made 2 kinds of jello and gingerbread cookies. We used a lot of dixie cups!

In the morning, my kitchen looked something like this*

After having two kitchen helpers all afternoon, and making two dinners (tonight: casserole, recipe below and tomorrow: enchiladas) my kitchen looked like this...

Wait for it....

I actually took the photos in reverse, as I didn't know in the morning that my kitchen would end up like this. :)

Okay, now about the Dixie Cups...

If you don't use dixie cups, you are missing out. I use these bad boys all.the.time. Today I took a photo every time I used a dixie cup. What can I say, I am easily entertained!

In one day, these are all of the things we used dixie cups for...

Crafts: I typically use a dixie cup for my daughters water paint cup. Today we also used it when she played with her clay.

Condiments: ketchup in a cup, to go with string cheese. Much easier than cleaning it off a plate.

Snacks: fill it with pretzels for a 1 point Weight Watchers snack. The kids like 'em too!

Drinking: 'nuff said

Cooking: I measure ingredients for the kids to pour in. Saves time and mess.

Yes, I'm the bubba gump of the dixie cups. :)

Lastly, here's the recipe for tonight's casserole.

Recipe
Stuffing Crusted Creamy Chicken Casserole

Ingredients:
1-2/3 c hot water
1 pkgs (6oz) stove top stuffing
6 sm boneless skinless chx breasts (I diced and cooked mine first)
garlic salt, pepper
1 bag (16oz) frozen veggies. I used broccoli, cauliflower, carrot mix (thawed and drained)
1 can (14.75oz) cream style corn
1/4 c ranch dressing (reduced fat)

Directions:
1. preheat oven to 425
2. add hot water to stuffing mix and stir until moistened, set aside
3. place chicken in 9x13 pan and sprinkle with garlic salt and pepper, top with veggies
4. mix together corn and dressing. Pour over chicken.
5. top with stuffing and cover with foil
6. bake 30 minutes. uncover and bake additional 10-15 minutes.

Shelter from the Rain

2010-01-18T10:11:00.001-08:00

Today my girls and I are enjoying one of our favorite family traditions.

On the first rain of the season, I always set up our camping tent in the living room. (It's the only time the tent gets used... it's never actually been outside).

It's a bit of a pain. And on occassion it's even dangerous.

This photo (below) was taken just after I got hit in the face with a long yellow pole...

But it's totally worth it. The kids L.O.V.E. having it up!

They pretend to nap in it.

They snack in it.

They pull toys into it.

They call it a "jump house"

They say I'm their neighbor.

They play like happy kids and I love it.

Then after a few days (yes, days!) I pull it down and enjoy my clear, open living room!

Thanks Peeps!

2010-01-18T09:15:00.000-08:00

I just wanted to say thanks so much for the answers to my blog questions here. I knew my peeps would share their mad blogging skills!

As you can see, I've mastered the link skill. I've also created a new header...yay!

Too bad I don't have a more recent family photo. I'm working on that one. Our computer crashed a few months ago and I have only a few random photos (can't retrieve from shutterfly!).

We are enjoying the rainy day. I'm going to go set up a tent in the living room now. Post to follow. :)

Fancy Blog Envy

2010-01-17T07:25:00.000-08:00

Hi Friends! I hope you are all enjoying your weekend!

I'm having a little blog envy lately. It's not healthy, I know. I want a pretty blog too! Alas, there are a few things that I can't figure out how to do.

Since I have yet to see a Blog 101 class anywhere, I'm calling for help from my seasoned blogger friends. Do you have any tips on how to do these few things in blogs??

Links: I know how to use the link icon to list a long URL. How do you make it say something else but still link to a URL (like to someones blog)? For instance, a lot of you say to go "here", with a link to a cool blog.

Headers: How do ya'll make those cool multi photo headers? I have photoshop elements, which I used for the photo in my header. But I'm curious how people put two, three, or even more photos in their header. Does it take a long time??

Saving: Is there a way to archive blogs onto DVD? The reason I ask is that some people (Ali Edwards is one) write blogs to their kids. She puts a blurb in her blog each day, one for her son and one for her daughter. In case you don't know, Ali is a super incredible scrapbooker and graphic designer.

I do this in word, where I have a 30+ page journal for each girl. But it would be so cool to have a nicer journal, including photos and such.

Photo from aliedwards@typepad.com

Any tips you could give me would be greatly appreciated!!!

Have a great day!!!!

Lifestyle Changes and the Battle of The Bulge

2010-01-14T08:21:00.000-08:00

I've been thinking about something lately. It's common knowledge that in order to lose weight the healthy way and keep it off, I need a lifestyle change. Small "choices" throughout my day can add up to a big change in the long run. Skip a muffin to lose the muffin.

But isn't the opposite also true? It's also the small lifestyle changes that cause me to gain weight. It's not one overindulgent meal or one missed workout. It's a change in lifestyle. It's going from drinking a decaf tea after the kids are in bed to eating a snack instead. Or no longer walking to the store after selling my BOB. Those seemingly innocent "choices" that I make aren't so innocent after they become a habit.

How do I know this? You know the answer. But it's more than just adding a few pounds to my figure this past year. I've been making lifestyle changes with regard to food my whole life. Some of them good and some of them bad. Consequently, my weight has gone up and down.

I am told that from birth to about first grade I was thin.

Then my mom went back to work and I started going to a friends house after school. Every day (EVERY DAY PEOPLE) her mom would sit us in front of the TV with a ham sandwich and a can of pringles.

Let's do the math...

This...

Plus (+) this

Equals (=) this...

WOW! I can't believe I just posted this picture. It's official. I'm an open book. P.S. Couldn't my mom have helped me find a more flattering bathing suit?

I figured out the pringles connection years ago. But this week I realized that was a lifestyle change.

After my parents divorced, mom moved with my brother and me to Huntington Beach. I joined flag team (laugh if you will - it was GREAT!) and moved my body. And said goodbye to pringles forever. Without knowing it, my lifestyle changed. Without trying, I slimmed down. Not skinny, just less chubby.

The battle with the bulge continued from then until now. I'd pick up running and lose weight. Develop a taste for wine and cheese and bulk up. Discover Stroller Strides and slim down. Start school, stress eat and gain a few pounds. Give up diet coke and put on a few more...

Let's do some math again.

this

is greater than (more calories) than

Gosh, this is getting long. Sorry. This is probably so boring for those of you who don't have weight issues. But then again, you probably have already closed out of this and gone to another blog that is filled with happy crafts and skinny jeans.

Okay so I'll get to my point. This realization, that small lifestyle changes can cause me to gain or lose weight is HUGE. It is liberating!

Instead of just jumping back into my never ending cycle and getting my diet back on, I am first figuring out where I got off track. I am evaluating my current eating habits and see what unhealthy habits have sneaked in. The good news is I see them. I see little habits that I've started without thinking. And this alone, without tracking points or measuring my breakfast cereal, has helped me get back on track. I am being mindful of my lifestyle. Regardless of what the scale says, I feel like I've won a small battle with food.

My hope is that if I pay attention to my diet/exercise lifestyle and become mindful of any changes (good or bad) that my weight will level off to a place I can be happy with.

Sorry for this long post. I guess I was using this as a way to think this out. :)

Sock Monster

2010-01-13T13:22:00.000-08:00

Everyone knows there is a sock monster who takes clean socks from the dryer, right? Please don't tell me it's not true. There is just no other explanation, really!

I am fairly certain each of my family members (myself included) wears two socks at a time. One sock on the right, and a twin sock on the left.

Yesterday I did laundry. Not just laundry, but ALL OF THE LAUNDRY. We are talking there wasn't a morsel of dirty clothes left in any hamper, room or garage. It was embarrasingly overdue. So overdue, I had to camp out in the living room to sort and fold.

My daughter couldn't resist popping in the photo. :)

Today I finished putting the haul away and folded the last few straggling socks that I had trouble matching yesterday. After piecing everything together...

Here's what I was left with.

13 lonely socks.

What do I do with them now? Do I throw them away? I mean, the twin can't be hiding. I washed everything!

Oh well, on the Bright Side, the laundry is done and put away. Ahhhh!!! It feels good! :)

Beauty for the Sensitive Lady

2010-01-13T08:07:00.000-08:00

I am in the mood for a light hearted, fun post. So I'm posting about something very un-serious. Beauty products!

I have sensitive skin and eyes, which means I have to be very particular about what products I use. Over the years I have gone through (wasted) countless products in search of the ones that won't make my skin burn or my eyes run all day.

My search is over! The results are in. I now have a shining star for each beauty need I currently have. Most of the products are inexpensive (yay Target!). The ones that aren't are from Origins.

So, here they are... my go-to's... please note most of them aren't in the order I use them!

Facial cleanser: Purpose face wash. I heard about it on the Dr Phil show, years ago, and it's been my favorite ever since. It's only about $3-4 at Target.

Moisturizer: Eucerin Everyday Protection w/SPF 30. A non-irritating moisturizer has been the most difficult thing for me to find. This one is awesome! No fragrance and it has SPF of 30. I use it every single day.

Exfoliant: Origins Modern Friction - (pictured with Origins stuff )

Toner:No7 Beautifully Balanced Purifying toner - Toner is new to me. I read about this one in a magazine and tried it. It really makes my face feel clean and even before applying moisturizer.

Serum: Origins A Perfect World: Also new to me. Got hooked on it when I went to a Moms Night Out at Origins. It makes my skin feel smooth before makeup. (pictured with Origins stuff below)

Foundation: Origins. (Not pictured) Although I use powders and foundations from origins, I'm inconsistent with them. And since makeups don't seem to bother my skin as much as other products, I didn't feel the need to single those out here...

Night Cream: Weil for Origins Bedtime Face Cream

Eye Moisturizer (night): Origins Eye Doctor

Lip Gloss: Bath and Body Works Mentha Lip Tint (Plum Mint)

Lotion: Vaseline cocoa butter. This entire post was inspired by this lotion. This stuff is goooood! I know I said I don't like fragrances but for some reason this cocoa butter fragrance doesn't irritate my eyes or skin. The first few times I used this stuff, I thought there was something mysterious in it. It made my legs feel like they had just had a massage! Not to mention, my body feels like butter! My husband is hooked on this stuff too.

FYI... these products are all Non-Comedogenic

Grab a coffee and sit down... I need your help!

2010-01-12T08:47:00.000-08:00

Hi friend,

Have you had your coffee today? No? Go grab a cup and sit down with me. I need some friendly advice.

I realize I'm sort of airing my dirty laundry here. At the risk of you thinking I'm a terrible mom, I'm putting this out in blog land, hoping your advice will bring a little peace to the Brightside house. Though most of our day here is filled with smiles and laughter, there are 3 times a day that I can count on being frustrated and frazzled.

Problem #1: Sleep - My kids wake up before the sun and fight bedtime with every ounce of their energy. They look tired. And I can tell by their moods that they need more sleep.

Ever since the kids were babies, we've stuck to a pretty regular nighttime routine to ensure an early bedtime (currently 7:45-8). Bath, pajamas, teeth, 2 books, 1 song, tuck in with kisses. This worked for about 3-4 years.

But for months now we have had some revolt at bedtime. My older daughter (5 1/2) comes out of her room an average of 4 times after we put her down. Here's a list of what we hear from her, "I'm hungry, i can't sleep, I'm not tired, i want water, i had a bad dream, i''m scared, what if i have a bad dream, what if a crocodile comes in my room, it's too loud, etc". My 3 yr old has recently clued in on this fun game and has started pulling some of the same antics.
Barring illness or bad dreams, they both sleep all night. Maybe I should count my blessings.

Do you have any tips for getting your kids to go to bed without a battle???

Problem #2: Breakfast - My 5 yr old is a vegetarian. It's true. We fought it tooth and nail but as soon as she realized where chicken came from, she refused to eat it. Next were hot dogs (she is convinced there are dogs in them, and that the people who make them have lied to us). No beef (although I haven't told her that porcupine meatballs have meat in them... I'm so bad). No eggs. No milk. She weighs 38 lbs and she's 5 yrs old. Am I worried? Yes. I have tried everything short of sticking a feeding tube down he throat.

After much fighting, I decided to explain to Sierra that there is such a thing as a vegetarian, and that she may choose to be one (someday). But I also explained that vegetarians eat other things to get their protein. We have an agreement that if she won't eat animals, she needs to eat beans, nuts or peanut butter instead. And she does, begrudgingly. Honestly, I don't know where she comes from. My husband and I both love food but she treats it like a nuisance.

Needless to say, it's difficult to find a breakfast she will eat. I've come up with go-to meals for lunch and dinner. But breakfast remains a problem. The two foods she will willingly eat are cinnamon rolls and pop tarts. Not exactly a healthy breakfast for anyone. I'll admit, I give her one or the other a lot. Because she'll eat it and I can get her to school in time. But it's not healthy. I need some alternatives.

Do you have any go-to, easy breakfasts that you can share?

Problem #3: Getting in the car - God, that sounds ridiculous. I swear my kids are actually well behaved and fun to be around much of the time. But getting them in the car in the morning is like pulling teeth. They dilly dally. They stall. They scream. They cry. They hit each other. They tell me I'm a bad mommy. It's awful. Once we get in the car, they are fine and happy to be on their way to school. But for a brief moment every school day, i want to run.

Do you have any tips on how to get your kids to "go" in the morning??

That's it. It's a sloppy, boring post. I apologize. I just need help. It's that simple. :)

Thanks for any tips you might send my way!!!

Have a great day!!!

Old Lady on Campus

2010-01-11T14:38:00.001-08:00

I started school today. My second of three prerequisite science classes before I can apply to the RN program. Well, actually, this isn't going to be my second class. I'm actually dropping this class in favor of a Physiology class that I got into at Santiago Canyon College. But I'm going to the first few classes to gain some knowledge and study materials to get ahead for next semester.

Last semester, my Anatomy lecture and lab were both in the science building so I pretty much never left the science building. There were loads of people in their 20's, 30's, and even 40's... all with comfortable shoes and aspirations of becoming nurses. But that was last semester. At the science building.

Today's class held lecture on the other side of campus. I had an hour to kill so I walked around this new territory. It was a whole different scene. Turns out the other side of campus looks vastly different than "my side". This other side has some really, really young kids. In a crowd of black skinny jeans and smoke, I was an old lady in mom jeans and running shoes.

Ironically, I just bought these jeans yesterday and felt pretty cool this morning before I left. I know there are minivan-driving mamas out there that dress cool (hi 2cool4myminivan). I am clearly not one of them.

The bright side about my age and my outfit (yes, there is always a bright side!) is threefold:

1. I am old enough to know what it takes to succeed and will do what it takes to do so, even if it means being the annoying one who asks a bunch of questions in class.

2. All the kids are nice to me at school, presumably because I look like their mom's best friend.

3. My feet are comfortable and I never once sported plumbers crack when I bent down.

I also got a new hair cut. It's plain. It looks to be a bit uneven. A fact that I only realized when looking at this photo. Urgh.

That's it. An old lady with mom jeans and a crooked haircut. Aren't you glad you don't have to be seen with me at the mall??

I'd Like to Thank The Academy...

2010-01-08T10:47:00.001-08:00

Well, I guess not the Academy really, but my friends Jana (2Cool4MyMinivan) and Warrior Princess (No Really I'm Just Saying) - who nominated me for a Beautiful Blogger Award! You've gotta love blog land. It's just too fun!

My first duty as a winner is to list 7 random things about myself. Duty #2 is to nominate 7 other blog friends for the award. Too fun! Here goes.

1. I love lists. I had to put this first because I was thrilled to have an opportunity to make a list here.

2. I just signed my kids up for extended care at school 3 days a week and I'm really happy about it.

3. My 3 yr old is one of (if not THE) the most strong willed children in the universe. I wrote that last sentence today at about noon. But as I type this (7:30pm), my 5 yr old seems to be attempting to take the reign. She won't let me put her to bed because she only wants her daddy. He is busy putting my other daughter to bed at the moment. Since she threw a fit, we won't let her have her way. So she's upstairs screaming her brains out, saying she doesn't want me to put her to bed. So I'm not. She's on her own. I am angry.

4. I have worked out every day this week and eaten good too. I know results take longer than that but I'm secretly disappointed I don't look like Jennifer Aniston yet.

5. I recently went back to school to become an RN. I am getting ready to start my second of three prerequisite classes before applying to a nursing program. Since it's so competitive, it's imperative that I get A's in my prereq science classes. Hence #2 above, since I need ample time to study. :)

6. I love running, despite the pain it causes in my knees.

7. I just got back from a funeral for my step grandfather. His cousin is a Catholic Priest. During the mass, he said "shit happens". Granted, he was saying that the deceased, Angelo, would have said that. But it was still funny to hear a Catholic Priest, officiating a Mass, say "shit happens".

Okay, my turn to tag! Here are my 7, not including the two that tagged me. If you've been tagged before, just enjoy the love. :)

I couldn't figure out how to make these links... sorry. You can find these ladies on my blog list from my blog.

Melting Candy

A Beautiful Mess

All a Flutter

Music to My Ears

The Goat and The Kid

Endurance Isn't Only Physical

Life, Liberty & the Pursuit of Happiness

Fresh Workout Playlist

2010-01-07T07:56:00.000-08:00

I didn't realize how stale my workout music was until I downloaded some fresh, new music. It was so much fun exercising to this music, I didn't want to leave the gym!

Since it made such a difference, I thought i'd share my new playlist. You might need a referesher on your ipod too!

My new list was inspired by Oprah.

The Black Eyed Peas put on a performance for her kickoff, along with a dancing 12k person flash mob. It was awesome!! I want to be a part of a flash mob dance someday!

Here's the link... check it out! http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20090908-tows-flash-mob-dance

In my car or house, I listen to country music or Jack Johnson. But when I am running, it's a different story. My running list is based on the beat alone. If it has a good fast paced beat that matches my pace (8-10 minute mile normally) then I usually like it. The only music I can't stand is hard rock or heavy medal.

Okay, so here it is. I listed my new 3 favorites first...

My New Playlist:

I gotta feeling - Black Eyed Peas

Hot n Cold - Katy Perry

Party in the USA - Miley Cyrus

Boom Boom Pow - Black Eyed Peas

Fire Burning - Sean Kingston

Halo - Beyonce

Lets get it started - Black Eyed Peas

Poker face - Lady Gaga

Replay - IYAZ

Right Round - Flo Rida

Showdown - Black Eyed Peas

Smile - Uncle Kracker

Sober - Pink

You belong with me - Taylor Swift - good cooldown song

The Life of a Photo

2010-01-05T07:47:00.001-08:00

I am obsessed with photos. I don't know why I hold them so dearly, but I do. Second only to my loved ones, I think about them all the time.

Like many people, my photography has evolved from poloroids to digital cameras.

Now I have my digital SLR. The mack-daddy within my price range. I love it. I take photos all the time. Look honey, the kids are dancing - grab the camera. Cuts, chocolate faces, birthday cakes, melt downs. I'm not very particular. If it's happening, I'm taking a photo. I'm not a professional. Heck, I'm not very good at it period. But I like it. A lot.

Here's what I've realized about taking pictures. The act of taking pictures keeps me present in my life. Weird, huh? Looking through that lens forces me to FOCUS on what I intend to SEE at that moment. Does that make sense? Oh well, it does to me.

Since I take about 2000 photos a year, I decided to dedicate a post to how I deal with my photos after I take them. I got the idea after reading my blog friend Heather's blog (all a flutter) today, where she talked about making a photo journal (this isn't a photo journal i'm writing about... it just inspired me)... http://allaflutterdesigns.blogspot.com/2010/01/im-determined.html_ .

Here's my photo routine:

#1: SHOOT - I take my photos (100-500/month)

#2:UPLOAD - Usually the same day, I upload photos to my computer

#3: SHUTTERFLY - I immediately upload all of my photos to shutterfly.com

#4: SHARE - If it's a noteworthy event, I share the shutterfly album with family, typically my mom in Oregon who doesn't get to see the kids much.

#5: ALBUM - When I get a chance (a couple times a month), I update my shutterfly photo book. I can do an entire post on this, and might later. Basically, I maintain an annual photo book (with only my favorites from each shoot) on Shutterfly and have it printed in January (I'm just finishing up mine for 2009).

I used to be a scrapbooker, with all the fun tools and paper. I really loved scrapbooking and will probably do it again someday when I have time. But the day I realized it had become more of a chore than a hobby was the day I figured out an alternative. I use shutterfly but there are many other similar websites. Shutterfly albums aren't the fanciest out there and they don't have a lot of bells and whistles. You choose a background & choose your layout, then just drag and drop photos. The important thing for me is to document the event.

Our family album also holds some of the kids artwork, which I scan and upload.

#6: KIDS ALBUMS - But I don't stop at that book. I also have a basic slip album for each of my kids. Here I put a copy of my favorites (about 10 photos/yr). I write a little blurb on the side, jot the date and that's it. This is for them to take with them when they are all grown. I also write them each a journal but that's a whole other post too.

#7: BOX - Any extra photos get put into my photo box, which we use for projects, crafts, fun, whatever.

#8 PRINT - Some photos get printed for our photo wall or frames around the house, but not many.

Looking at this wall makes me happy!

#9 - BACKUP - Occassionally I back up photos to CD. I used to back up religiously, once a month and at that time (for 4 yrs) I would make a backup of my backup. Crazy. I now rely on Shutterfly as my main backup and only put them on CD when I feel like it.

So there it is. My photo obsession revealed. Phew! That was tiring!

Lazy Phase OVER

2010-01-04T10:18:00.001-08:00

Do you ever go through lazy phases in your life? Lately I have been in a lazy phase. I think it started with my hair. Seriously. It's happened before. Here's how the cycle goes:

#1 - I let the hair go. I get tired of my blonde hair and decide I'm going to go natural. Somewhere around week 6 (when roots aren't disgusting yet), I start getting really crazy and decide to stop getting it cut too. I picture Jennifer Aniston with her long, natural looking honey blonde hair.

By week 8, I'm wearing my hair in a pony tail every day and I'm so grossed out by the roots that I decide it's just plain not worth it taking care of myself at all.

So I don't.

#2 - I start eating a little more poorly.

#3 - I ease up on the exercise. Okay I darn near stopped it. Do

#4 - The house gets a little messy. Well, what do you expect? I can't think straight anymore because there are no endorphins to keep me alert, and I am starting to really feel like Roseanne Barr.

#5 - Muffin top appears and I start to avoid getting my picture taken.

#6 - Start thinking about cutting my own hair or, hell, shave it off cuz it couldn't look worse.

#7 - Then there is an awakening. Like, I see a photo my husband took of me walking at the zoo. Oh, holy Jesus. Is that me?

#8 - It gets worse. I decide to take a photo with my girlfriends (same zoo trip). Husband suggests that I take my vest off for the photo. I tell him no, it's covering my muffin top, to which he responds, "trust me, you will look better with a muffin top - the vest makes you look like a boy (OH MY GOD).

Then I see the photo later and gasp. What THE What?!!!

My hair does NOT look like Jennifer Aniston.

My "muffin top" is not a muffin top at all. It's a super sized full muffin that is bigger than my boobs (which are not small!)

My arms are lacking any definition at all. You'd never know that just a few short months ago I was a fitness instructor. Don't spit your coffee out. It's true!

But this didn't happen overnight. It was slowly, one missed workout at a time. One missed hair appointment at a time. One cookie at a time.

Enough is enough

Lazy phase over. I went running Saturday and again this morning.

I'm meeting a girlfriend at the gym tonight to start toning.

I signed up for the mud run and I am running the LH half marathon again in May.

And praise the Lord, I have a hair appointment tomorrow!!!

On the BRIGHT SIDE, no one said I smelled like the animals. Isn't this a cute photo of my daughter looking at a goat?

May I have a word with you?

2009-12-31T16:12:00.000-08:00

I just love this blog world. I do. It's all still so new to me so I suspect I'm a bit like a kid with a new toy. Every new angle I find makes me gitty.

The trend this week in blog land seems to be picking a word for the new year. I love it!

Some people disdain New Years Resolutions, deeming them trite or cliche. Though it does seem most resolutions get ignored after only weeks, I like the idea that masses of people take time, even just once a year, to think about how they can better themselves. We could all use a little improvement, right? Some of us spend a lot more than once a year thinking and reorganizing our lives to grow. Others wait until late December. Either way, pushing ourselves out of our warm fuzzy ruts is a good thing, in my opinion.

So I'm totally on board with this word thing. Here it is... my word for the year is...

Focus

It's totally broad, I know. Maybe even a cop out, because it covers basically everything. But it works for me. I'd like to..

Focus on each moment. What am I intending to do at this moment? Whether I am intending to write a blog, get my daughters dressed for the day or unload the dishwasher, I need to "focus" on that task. Sure, I can multitask with the rest of them. But if I'm multitasking am I truly present in the moment?

Focus on what matters. My family. My faith. My friendships. Health. Keep my actions in line with the way I'd like my life to turn out.

Focus on reducing my stress. For me, that almost entirely means doing more at night to prevent stress in the morning. I have a list of "to do's" that I never do. Every morning I beat myself up for not doing them. If only I had given myself the gift of packed lunches last night, i wouldn't be stressing to get them packed in the two minutes before leaving. Same goes for kids clothes and putting away laundry. Every minute I spend doing something for tomorrow is 5 minutes saved in stress tomorrow.

I whole heartedly believe that what you focus on grows. You reap what you sow. I'm going to mindfully focus on what I want to grow, instead of letting my mind be taken every which way by whatever weeds decide to take root.

Do you have a word you'd like to share??

The Happiness Project

2009-12-30T09:59:00.000-08:00

Have you heard of the new book, The Happiness Project? This is SO up my alley. The author, Gretchen Rubin, spent a year trying different antecdotes for happiness. She pulled happiness theories from all over the place - different cultures and eras (from Aristotle to Oprah) - tested them out and then wrote about her findings in this book.

This is especially interesting to me because I consider myself a student of happiness. In fact, a few years ago, I went on my own little happiness journey where I gave some serious thought to joy and whether or not it could be consciously increased. Along my journey, I documented all of my "ah ha" moments. I also collected quotes and thoughts from people I thought were on to something. My personal favorite is the apostle, Paul.

I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need and to have plenty. I have learned the secret to being content in every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through Him who gives me strength. - Philippians 4:11

What I have personally found is that thinking about happy things helps bring out the happiness from within you.

So when I came across this book, I bubbled with excitement! I also came across the authors blog here http://www.happiness-project.com/

I think she might like lists as much as me too! I'll close with my favorite bible quote ever from Philippians 4:8:

Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or praiseworthy - think about such things. Whatever you have received or heard from me or seen in me - put into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. - Philippians 4:8

Couch vs. Movie Theater

2009-12-29T19:01:00.000-08:00

I took my kids to see "The Princess and The Frog" today. It was a cute movie. It cost me $27 admission and $13 for treats and water. $40 for the three of us to see a movie. For the low, low price of $40, I got the following:

The first showing was too full to sit together, so we had to wait an hour to see the next showing.

Since we feared not getting a seat, we arrived at second showing 45 minutes early. That meant my 3 yr old and 5 yr old had to sit for a total of about 3 hrs (45 minutes early, 10 min previews and 2 hr movie)

During the movie, my 3 yr old had to get up to go potty more than once

She also wanted to leave halfway through and made it known she wasn't happy we couldn't

My 5 yr old complained that it was way too loud (she was right!)

She also got scared and wanted to sit on my lap, with the other daughter

The teenager next to me texted the whole movie

My water jug fell on the sticky floor - eeeww

Was that all so bad? No, it wasn't. But it did get me thinking, when did going to the movies become less of a treat than having a movie night at home?

At one point in my life, going to the movies was AWESOME! As a kid, it meant enjoying an uninterrupted movie on a colorful, clear giant screen... for $1.50. As opposed to watching some random fuzzy tv show and sitting through commercials. And as a 20 something, going to the movies was the end all date for me (what can I say, I was easy to please?!).

But then we had kids. And a few years later the flat screen TV joined the family.

And now we have TiVo and a blue ray player. Both have a pause button. We also have a super comfy couch and a bathroom right down the hall. My husband NEVER texts ANYONE while watching a movie with me. And if my water drops on the floor, I'm not completely repulsed.

So it's official. I would now rather watch a movie at home than go to the theater. I think that might make me old or boring. But I'm okay with that.

Christmas Surprises

2009-12-27T10:14:00.000-08:00

Christmas morning was full of surprises!

Our first surprise happened at 5am when our youngest daughter woke up with a fever and vomit. Poor little thing felt so sick most of the morning, she didn't even finish unwrapping her gifts!

Then the tylenol kicked in and she perked up...

My 5 yr old was thrilled to get the leapster she had been wanting... along with a mountain of pink toys that made her squeal in delight.

My little one was surprised by the cute little stuffed animal that her sister bought her at school.

And the Pet Care center that she really wanted. Along with her own mountain of pink treasures.

No, Santa didn't bring their prized goods. Their loving family did. We downplay santa in this house. He does stockings and one gift each, that's it. And it never seems to be the one they wanted. Hmm. This year he gave them little princess tents to put in their rooms.

I got the waffle maker I wanted. Saturdays are going to be waffle days in the plummer household. I tried it out the day after Christmas. It was messy, but they were good. I'd love to get my hands on a good (HEALTHY) waffle recipe to make.

Great Grandma and Brooke surprised us all by curling up together and taking a nap. Is that sweet or what?

But the most surprising of all was what a wonderful day we all had, despite the flu!

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-24T06:48:00.001-08:00

Just like so many others today, I have last minute gifts to wrap, a house to clean and in-laws to entertain. I just thought I'd stop in to say Merry Christmas to my blog friends! Hope it's a great one!

Reindeer Food

2009-12-21T14:51:00.001-08:00

I was introduced to Reindeer food yesterday and decided to try to make a batch today. It was fairly easy, albeit a tad messy. My only complaint is that they taste sooo good, it was really hard to control myself!

How to make Reindeer food:

What you need:
1 lb white chocolate (melt slowly in saucepan)
2 cups cheerios cereal
2 cups rice chex cereal or chex mix
2 cups pretzels
2 cups salted peanuts
1 12oz package of plain m&m's

What to do:

1. Melt white chocolate in pot on low

2. mix all ingredients together, inside pot with melted chocolate

3. Spread on wax paper to cool. Once partially cool, break into pieces and put in refrigerator to cool more.

check out my little one sneakin a bite!

Notes:
1. I spread mine a little too thick (typical!). I think you are supposed to spread it pretty thin.

2. This batch makes enough for 6-10 goodie bags, depending on how full you make them (and how much you eat!)

3. In February, you can put red and pink m&m's in it to make "Cupid's Food"

My daughter decided to make her own chocolate covered pretzels with the leftover white chocolate and chocolate chips. They were surprisingly good!!!

Porcupine Meatballs

2009-12-20T18:53:00.000-08:00

Don't worry, they aren't actually made from porcupines. :)

I thought I'd share our family's favorite recipe... porcupine meatballs. I hope your family enjoys it as much as mine!

Here's what you need:

1 pkg beef flavored rice-a-roni

1 egg

1 lb ground beef

3 cups water

large bowl

large pan with lid

1. In a large bowl, mix the ground beef, egg and rice-a-roni (don't put the seasoning packet in yet). The best way to do this is with your hands. Gross, but true. Mix it really good (not pictured) because you need the egg all throughout so they don't fall apart).

2. Make small meatballs and put in large pan to brown.

3. Once meatballs are browned on all sides, mix seasoning packet with 3 cups water & pour over meatballs (it should completely cover meatballs)

4. Cover and cook on Low-Med for 50-60 minutes. Check it after a half hour because if it looks like the water has been dried up, you'll need to add more.

Tips:

I typically double the recipe so that we have lots of leftovers
I have tried it with ground turkey, but they aren't as good. However, I doubled it tonight and used 1lb gr turkey and 1lb gr beef and they were great
We usually serve it with either mashed potatoes (or mashed cauliflower) or drop biscuits, and broccoli

Here's my little one helping make biscuits. Note: if you have kids help you, little dixie cups are a huge help!! You can measure out what they are in charge of and pour it in dixie cups. It's way easier and less messy than measuring spoons.

Tonight we served it with drop biscuits with a recipe I found on all recipes (below). They were g00000000d!

Do you like my cheesy country Christmas plates?

Mom My Ride

2009-12-17T07:33:00.000-08:00

Have you ever seen the show "Pimp My Ride"? I haven't, but apparently it's about a group of auto professionals who take an ordinary car and turn it into a sleek, "pimped out" car, to the thrill of the owners.

Then there is the spoof of it called "Mom My Ride". This one I have seen. This group of auto professionals take an ordinary mini van and "mom" it out with dents, spilled milk and other fun stuff.

Here's the link in case you want to (you have to!) watch it.... http://www.webtvhub.com/mom-my-ride-minivan-gets-pimped-out-mom-style/

And now, a true story about my car and how it has been mommed.

Once upon a time, we bought a nice new minivan (2006). 3 short years later, it is trashed.

Here's a pic of it today.

Looks okay, right? Let me show you a closer look (do I dare?!!!!)...

The drivers side door panel is popped off - from mommy slamming the door in irritation of a screaming kid. Not my proudest habit and one that I have since broken. The dealer said it would cost $750 to fix. Husband tried tape, but it didn't work. I guess I'm stuck with it.

Here's a typical view of the carpet..

I thought about vacuuming the car out before posting this, but in the interest of true photo journalism, I opted to show you as-is.

There are mystery scratches on the side and front bumper. Don't ask me... I have no idea where they came from!

I found this little guy hiding. I don't blame him.

The change/drink holder in front was broken when my 3 yr old stepped on it while it was open. It's holding on for dear life right there so I opted not to pull it off just for a photo.

There isn't anything gross in this photo, unless you count my icky diaper bag that needs to be retired. But I wanted to show you the clever "errand" basket that I keep in my car. It's great! It typically holds school paperwork, mail, notebook paper and pen, etc. It really comes in handy. I think every car should have one!

There are a few other things not pictured, sadly. Stains on the carpet, and a letter "B" that was written on one of the seats. The back window occassionally gets stuck open, presumably from being played with too many times by my daughters toes while I drive. And there's probably more too but you get the picture.

My ride has officially been mommed. Lucky me!!